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Gay Lesbian marriage of convenience

  • 24-06-2014 11:06pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1


    Does anyone know how a gay man could go about arranging a marriage of convenience with a Lesbian? Or vice versa. Not sure if the forum allows me to add my email to this thread but its available on request.

    Also, does anyone have any opinions on this topic. Would it be hypocritical to condemn such an arrangement while aspiring towards a more tolerant society?


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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Without having any background as to the need for such a marriage, then it's hard to give an opinion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71,113 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    For what purpose would you be intending to do this?

    Taking in to account that currently, marriages must actually be consummated in Ireland to avoid the chances of being declared null and marriages which are found to have been formed for immigration purposes can lead to serious legal consequences I cannot see any reason at all for doing it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Why would someone do this? If its to pass yourself off as straight then that really is depressing. It would be living a complete lie and unnecessary also possibly harmful. I mean what if either of you were to meet someone and fall in love?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭EvanCornwallis


    Not a bad Idea OP, I wish you luck. Find a woman to present a respectable front with and keep any unnatural behaviour private. Pity more aren't like minded.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭J_E


    Cyborg99 wrote: »
    Also, does anyone have any opinions on this topic. Would it be hypocritical to condemn such an arrangement while aspiring towards a more tolerant society?
    Just a bit sad, really... :(


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,201 ✭✭✭ongarboy


    Cyborg99 wrote: »
    Does anyone know how a gay man could go about arranging a marriage of convenience with a Lesbian? Or vice versa. Not sure if the forum allows me to add my email to this thread but its available on request.

    Also, does anyone have any opinions on this topic. Would it be hypocritical to condemn such an arrangement while aspiring towards a more tolerant society?

    And what wedding present would you like? A closet big enough to hide both of you?

    Sorry, I can't help. I don't know any woman with such a low self esteem that would put herself through that. Sad to hear such a guy still exists though in 2014.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 1111Mark1111


    Cyborg99, I am looking to do the same thing myself. Have kids whild I can consuct my sexual life in private with other men. And my wife can pursue hers with women. Then we go out and act like normal couple in front of friends and family. Perhaps have kids. Did you have any joy finding any info or dating sites where this can happen?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,156 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Folks this forum is not for personals

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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