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  • 16-04-2014 10:29am
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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm heartbroken, can any advice me how to feel better?


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    #2
    Tokyo
    Politics Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,655 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tokyo


    Hey OP,

    I understand that you are in a difficult place right now, but you really are going to have to provide more information than that if you expect posters here to provide you with meaningful advice...


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    AmberAmber
    Registered Users Posts: 191 ✭✭AmberAmber


    i have days i am not great and struggle , and have had times where heat break makes me sad after a break up some years ago.
    The one sure thing you must think about and some times i don't listen to my own advice but sure that's for another day, you got to get up , dress up and show up !! get up , do your hair and make up , dress nice , make an effort , but do it for your self. if you have good make up I know my self I was less likely to cry as there be panda eyes !!
    take a walk in a nice town park , buy your self fresh flowers every week for your house just a €3 or €4 bunch . just surround your self with kindness to your self and don't be so hard on your self.


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    #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Pretty dependent on the circumstances of your heartache? But in my eyes you fight for a relationship worth fighting for and leave go of the ones that aren't. And all the clichéd crap...join gym, spend time with friends and family, spend time on self and self improvement, learn to enjoy own company, be good to self, (if all avenues to reconcillation are exhausted-in my case :( ) then cut all contact, zero social media, get rid of belongings and reminders of ex, stay busy, time heals all wounds and you will love again. Maybe try to whole write them a letter but never send it catharsis. Remind self of reasons why it didn't work as opposed to dwelling on the good and nostalgia. Remember that at some point you'll look back and see it wasn't worth the heartache. If only I could take own advice ....


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    Neyite
    Administrators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,947 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Neyite


    Locked pending review


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