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Debs date help!

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  • 06-04-2014 11:20am
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    Evakennedy
    Registered Users Posts: 4 ✭


    There's this guy I hope to bring, he's super nice and we're really good friends.... But the thing is I think my other friend is going to ask him even though she knows I want to :( and I don't want to ask him too soon because I will sound wayyyy to eager! What do I do??


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    shamrock55
    Registered Users Posts: 7,208 ✭✭✭shamrock55


    All you can do is get in there first simple as that, if not ill take you;)


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    Junglewoman
    Registered Users Posts: 151 ✭✭Junglewoman


    He might be disappointed if you don't get there first!


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    Evakennedy
    Registered Users Posts: 4 ✭Evakennedy


    Junglewoman wrote: »
    He might be disappointed if you don't get there first!

    How do I ask him without seeming ti eager or creepy haha


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    oncex
    Closed Accounts Posts: 505 ✭✭✭oncex


    If you're afraid he'll say no, Get another friend to check if he would go with you first..
    Then if hes up for it, just text him and ask him its not a big deal :o
    Also make it blatantly obvious to your other "friend" you're going to ask him. It will wreak havoc with her conscience.
    And its not too early ::)


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    robman60
    Registered Users Posts: 2,222 ✭✭✭robman60


    Evakennedy wrote: »
    How do I ask him without seeming ti eager or creepy haha

    If anything he'd be glad you were asking him I'd say. Definitely tell your friend though, because it'll probably cause tension otherwise.


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    Evakennedy
    Registered Users Posts: 4 ✭Evakennedy


    oncex wrote: »
    If you're afraid he'll say no, Get another friend to check if he would go with you first..
    Then if hes up for it, just text him and ask him its not a big deal :o
    Also make it blatantly obvious to your other "friend" you're going to ask him. It will wreak havoc with her conscience.
    And its not too early ::)

    Okay I think I will, wish me luck! :)


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    tommullane
    Registered Users Posts: 43 ✭tommullane


    Went to my debs last year. Had my girlfriend so I was lucky but most of the lads asked girls easy enough. I also went to another debs with a friend whos date pulled out a week before. He will only be delighted if ye are good friends I wouldnt hesitate in asking


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    Anonymagician
    Registered Users Posts: 1,133 ✭✭✭Anonymagician


    Use the old "look me deposit has to be in tomorrow and I need to know if I'm going to get one ticket or two so..."


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