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  • 03-03-2014 12:38am
    #1
    FERGAL7
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 95 ✭✭


    Well,
    As the title suggests I'm looking to get back on the dating scene. Got a bad scarring from a girl who I had it REALLY bad for. She told me I was lovely and whatever but it just wasn't there for her. Looking back on it now I'm glad it happened because it freed me of those heavy shackles that were my feelings for her, it also afforded me the oppurtunity to examine what I had done wrong. I think I waited too long without putting it on the table to her and I was too available(If she called and needed something I would have dropped whatever I was doing :L)

    This incident led to a slight resentment of women, six months of relentless clubbing, drinking, one night stands(half the time with girl's I wasn't even very attracted to) and generally not giving a **** :D I'm really much better for what happened because I really feel it allowed me to grow and realise getting turned down is not the end of the world.

    Anyway, the issue at hand. There's a girl in my class(college) who ticks all the boxes, gorgeous, interesting and a fantastic laugh. I met her out last week and after a lot of talking and a few drinks we made out. I'm in no way smitten but I would like to see if thing's could progress. Any advice on my next move? I figure the best thing to do is just ask her on a date but I always feel that's something that just works in the movies? Also I'm not texting her as it's never really been something I was good at, should I be? Advice on texting would also be much appreciated! :)


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  • #2
    Engine No.9
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,128 ✭✭✭Engine No.9


    I've a feeling this one is gonna be locked so before it is, just follow your gut, dude, and ask her out on a date. What have you got to lose???


  • #3
    Lux23
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,134 ✭✭✭Lux23


    Just ask her out, I would imagine she likes you and is waiting for you to do so.


  • #4
    ivytwine
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,114 ✭✭✭ivytwine


    Ask her for a drink/coffee/movie.

    You've nothing to lose :)


  • #5
    Tokyo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,656 ✭✭✭✭Tokyo


    OP, the Relationship Issues forum is here to provide a venue for members to ask for advice about issues within their relationships. It is NOT here to provide guidance on what your next move with the girl of your choice is, nor is it here to tell you what you should text her.

    Thread closed, and please read the forum charter before posting again.

    Regards,
    Mike


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