Picking up strippers..

Vitor68

Anyone have any experience in picking up strippers/lapdancers?

Trying to chat this one up, at my local strip joint. However, I think I made a major **** up by getting two lap dances from her. I only just heard that the golden rule, when picking up strippers, is NOT to pay for any dances, especially from the stripper (as she then just sees you as a regular customer). However, I have been super nice to her, like a gentleman, and I am often talking to her about her life, and she is very open about her own life to me. She even gave me an extra special dance because I was her 'friend'.

I will also say this. I have often rejected her offers for dances, to just chill out and relax and I told her on numerous occassions that she can go chat to other men if she wants. However, she kept insisting on chatting to me, saying I had nice eyes and that I was nice to her. Not sure what to think about this, but I do like. she seems like a nice person.

Any advice would be great! I have only been getting advice from american sites. and I think in america, it is a different society.

Cork selfbuild

No personal experience, but since ye seem to be quite chatty, why not just ask where she socialises as you like chatting to her, and ye could have a more relaxed chat? I know a guy who used to date a stripper and subsequently had a family with, he did just that...

Pawwed Rig

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