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Grief and regrets

  • 27-02-2014 05:47PM
    #1
    Spring Onion
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,087 ✭✭✭


    Hi,
    I lost my mother suddenly about 3 weeks ago and I am still in a daze. I have so many regrets and they are driving me insane. I know I am being somewhat irrational but I have so many "should haves" and I do not know how I am going to reconcile them.
    There is also lots of anger but that is easing slowly. I just wish I could have 5 more minutes with her now.


Comments

  • #2
    December2012
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,695 ✭✭✭December2012


    It's very understandable to feel that way.

    Did you have a good relationship?

    It might help if you said the things you wanted to say out loud. I don't know why, but it helps me.


  • #3
    Spring Onion
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,087 ✭✭✭Spring Onion


    Thanks for the advice.
    Yeah we got on well but had ups and downs.
    I feel I could have visited more etc.
    I will really miss her.


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