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Confused and stressed

  • 17-02-2014 9:31am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hello,

    Would love some opinions. I met somebody on Tinder back in October. We chatted quite a bit and kept things quite casual meeting maybe once a month until a few weeks ago. It has become more serious now and we have made things exclusive and have spent the last couple of weekends together. We have so much in common and he has treated me well so far. Made a big effort for Valentines Day etc.

    There are a few issues for me.. for one almost all of his friends are girls with whom he regularly hangs out with/goes to dinner/ gigs with alone. I have had problems with jealousy in the past so I wonder will I find this really difficult. I would worry that he will just decide to get with one of these girls because they know eachother so long/get on so well etc. We also ended up having a pretty heavy conversation after he commented that he loves big boobs but said he would get over the fact that I have small boobs becuase he likes me so much.... that kinda hurt. He also commented how one of his friends have massive boobs which I think will feed the paranoia..

    Opinions on this would be great, feel like this will just be stressful...

    Thanks.


Comments

  • #2
    Overheal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    Have you talked with him about this?


  • #3
    AnonMouse
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 95 ✭✭AnonMouse


    To be honest, I think the only wrong doing on his part is the comment about the boobs thing. That was a little insensitive out of him.

    The rest of the issue here is yours. He had his friends before he met you and if he hadn't scored with any of his female friends before he met you, and he likes you as much as he says, he more than likely won't score with them now. Some guys get on better with girls and vice versa. You will need to work on your trust issues if you want this relationship to go anywhere.

    All the best :)


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