Women that only want men that have large penises

newmember987

I was wondering if I could get some advice on it, and whether I should be concerned about it or not

All of the women that I've had sex with have told me that they're only interested in long term relationships with men that have very large penises and therefore would never get into a relationship with a man who had an above average, average or a small one

Before readers jump to conclusions I'm not small in that region, Im average in length and girth and have been told that I'm brilliant in bed but they would still only associate themselves relationship wise with blokes that have huge penises.. Which brings me to my concern

All of them have said they would never think about getting into a relationship with a bloke that was no shorter than 10 to 11 inches in length and no smaller than 8 inches in girth.. seems difficult to believe that they said.. If this is true for all women around my age well then Im almost stuffed for finding a woman to settle down with when Im a bit older

"All of them" isn't just 3 or 4 women either.. It'd be lets say more than 10 women but less than 15.. Also I've discussed this topic before with women who Im friends with about I'd say 15 of them down have told me what I have described in the paragraph above.. So basically between 25 and 30 women have told me this

It surely hasn't been always like this ?? Has it ?

If this attitude continues are women just starting to expect a bit too much of men in that area ??

Or have I just been a unlucky with these women with their expectations ?? In other words most women aren't actually like this and Ive just been unlikely with the women Ive slept with so far who are like that ?

MJ23

This will end well.

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Penny Tration

The women you know sound extremely silly and childish.

10 or 11 inches? No wonder they're single, if that's what they consider to be the only thing they'll settle for!

Not to be too crude but I've been with someone average, someone a little more tthan average, and someone a good bit above average. Only real difference was that the very above average guy er, hurt, until I got used to it.

Once you're not way below average, you really have nothing to worry about.

fineso.mom

ALL of them said they wouldn't be happy with less than 10 inches long and 8 inches in girth ???? Wow , what are the chances that many women would could up with the exact same measurements/requirements as an excuse not to sleep with a man a second time especially if is 'brilliant' in bed? 8 inches?? Give me a break.

fineso.mom

Sorry, didn't mean to sound so sarcastic. It just seems unlikely that approx 12 women said the same thing to you. Length and width (unless well below or well above average) are secondary to technique and how you feel about the other person. Perhaps you've been unlucky meeting idiotic women with ridiculous notions. Don't worry there are plenty of normal girls out there who are looking for normal guys who won't be bringing a measuring tape into the bedroom to check if you meet requirements.

newmember987

green_screen wrote: »

The women you know sound extremely silly and childish.

10 or 11 inches? No wonder they're single, if that's what they consider to be the only thing they'll settle for!

Not to be too crude but I've been with someone average, someone a little more tthan average, and someone a good bit above average. Only real difference was that the very above average guy er, hurt, until I got used to it.

Once you're not way below average, you really have nothing to worry about.

Not all of them are childish though perhaps apart from 2 or 3 of them, some of them are quite mature

Well I dont know if all of them are single now or not.. Id say some are single & some are in a relationship.. I dont keep in contact with all of them

Cool thanks for your advice

newmember987

fineso.mom wrote: »

Sorry, didn't mean to sound so sarcastic. It just seems unlikely that approx 12 women said the same thing to you. Length and width (unless well below or well above average) are secondary to technique and how you feel about the other person. Perhaps you've been unlucky meeting idiotic women with ridiculous notions. Don't worry there are plenty of normal girls out there who are looking for normal guys who won't be bringing a measuring tape into the bedroom to check if you meet requirements.

Yeah it is unlikely.. This is how my concern came about because I originally thought that was highly unlikely.. and when it kept on occurring I then started thinking well maybe this opinion from women is a lot more common than I had first thought

Chara1001

No OP it's not common. Its rubbish
Don't worry

Tokyo

newmember987 wrote: »

All of them have said they would never think about getting into a relationship with a bloke that was no shorter than 10 to 11 inches in length and no smaller than 8 inches in girth.. seems difficult to believe that they said.. If this is true for all women around my age well then Im almost stuffed for finding a woman to settle down with when Im a bit older

So somewhere in between 10 and 15 women have ALL told you this??? Excuse my skepticism but that sounds like a bit of a stretch (no pun intended). God help me for googling the statistics on this, but that would narrow them down to <1% of the male population of the planet.

Assuming what you say is true, my advice would be to move in new circles of friends that have a more realistic idea of what to expect between the sheets....

newmember987

mike_ie wrote: »

So somewhere in between 10 and 15 women have ALL told you this??? Excuse my skepticism but that sounds like a bit of a stretch (no pun intended). God help me for googling the statistics on this, but that would narrow them down to <1% of the male population of the planet.

Assuming what you say is true, my advice would be to either move in new circles of friends that have a more realistic idea of what to expect between the sheets....

You're right to be sceptical, apart from the women who told me I haven't heard anything like that to that extent from anywhere else or from anyone else

Well yeah with variances though, so a few say would prefer maybe 11 or 12 in length with 6 or 7 in girth, then others 9 or 10 in length with 8 or 9 girth

Well in my OP I mentioned both women who I slept with and women who are/were just friends who I never slept with.. So it isn't just women who I'm friends with

Has anyone ever come across women with those expectations or preferences ?? maybe around my age bracket ? early/mid twenties

Ham Sambo

I think you are hanging out (pardon the pun) with the wrong type of woman.

Mint Aero

Troll troll, troll me hole. Which happens to be just exactly 8 inches in girth and 10 inches deep

Tokyo

newmember987 wrote: »

You're right to be sceptical, apart from the women who told me I haven't heard anything like that to that extent from anywhere else or from anyone else

Well yeah with variances though, so a few say would prefer maybe 11 or 12 in length with 6 or 7 in girth, then others 9 or 10 in length with 8 or 9 or girth

You sure they aren't getting imperial and metric mixed up?? The first set of dimensions at least are about the size of a Subway foot long sub?!

To answer your question, no, I haven't come across any women with those kind of expectations, nowhere near (thankfully). You sure these female friends of yours haven't been pulling your ...... leg?

AmberAmber

maybe there is a chance this is a topic you seem to bring up with all these women over time and they see your interest in knowing and just go and wreck your head by saying stuff like that.
Its a question i have heard before and its a way out if your not interested in a guy to be able to say thanks but no thanks.
If this is pillow talk you are being wound up !!
Some people do talk some tall stories !! i do hope you are happy with your own self. don't get consumed by this.
there are plenty guys who wont date a girl if she is over a size 12 !! yet seem to fall into bed with many a girl who would have not seen size 12 since they were 12 yrs old !!
don't be worrying about size. it messes with your head (pun intended ) !!!

Chara1001

6 or 7 inches in girth???????? No op, i'm not sure i believe you anymore

newmember987

Ham Sambo wrote: »

I think you are hanging out (pardon the pun) with the wrong type of woman.

I dont have 25 female friends that I constantly hang out with all of the time
Some of them were women that I text or contact through social networks to, others over phone conversations, then others that do I hang out with.. Its a mix

newmember987

mike_ie wrote: »

You sure they aren't getting imperial and metric mixed up?? The first set of dimensions at least are about the size of a Subway foot long sub?!

To answer your question, no, I haven't come across any women with those kind of expectations, nowhere near (thankfully). You sure these female friends of yours haven't been pulling your ...... leg?

Yes, Im 100% sure they knew what they were talking about.. Stop taking the p**s out of me its not funny

My question wasn't directed to you personally but thanks for letting me know

Idle Passerby

Are you sure they aren't taking the piss? The size you describe sounds intimidating and uncomfortable rather than a thing of joy.

These women have told you this via text or social networks and aren't necessarily friends of yours, you say? Hmmm... Are they possibly being paid to say things of this sort? If so, I think you should be taking it with a massive pinch of salt.

Spunge

Chara1001 wrote: »

6 or 7 inches in girth???????? No op, i'm not sure i believe you anymore

6 inch girth may sound a lot bigger than it looks. Its not that uncommon.

Ham Sambo

newmember987 wrote: »

Yes, Im 100% sure they knew what they were talking about.. Stop taking the p**s out of me its not funny

My question wasn't directed to you personally but thanks for letting me know

Seriously though, I will have to agree with Mike, woman that try and seek out a guy with a foot long dick are in dreamland, if you bring up the subject with a girl as to the size and width of a preferred penis then they are going to take the pi*s

Tokyo

newmember987 wrote: »

Yes, Im 100% sure they knew what they were talking about.. Stop taking the p**s out of me its not funny

My question wasn't directed to you personally but thanks for letting me know

I'm sorry that you feel that way, my post wasn't to take the piss out of you at all. My analogy stands in terms of the measurements these girls gave you, and put into the perspective I just gave (subway sandwich), are obviously unrealistic.

It's pretty obvious from what I've said and what others have said, that someone has been exaggerating somewhere, either to get a rise out of you, or whatever, I"m not sure.

whats_my_name

"No smaller than 8 inches in girth" The average size of a new born baby's head is 14 inches & they say no less than 8 inches... so they are talking 9/10 possiblely larger in girth?? Hats off to them, labour will be a walk in the park for them so, possibly even enjoyable! Honestly OP either you are speaking to extremely immature girls, or have no concept on measurement and/or are taking the piss!

newmember987

AmberAmber wrote: »

i do hope you are happy with your own self. don't get consumed by this.

I'm unsure of whether to be happy with myself or not
As I mentioned in my opening post the women I slept with said that I was fine in bed.. They had no problems at all.. So I thought I was doing the job fine.. But then either before or after when Im contacting them this subject does come up.. And then I find out that they've no interest in a relationship with a bloke who doesnt meet their penis size expectations or whatever size they prefer

And what also makes things more confusing for me and therefore worse for me is it that I haven't been in a relationship ever !!

So its a bit difficult to distinguish of whether Im good in bed, whether Im brilliant whether Im no good.. If I need to work on something, If I need to work on nothing at all.. If what I have is fine or not

Its all so confusing !

baby and crumble

Frankly the mere NOTION of a foot long penis scares the sh!t out of me.

Granted I'm a lesbian, but any of my friends I've vaguely spoken to about this sort of thing agree that size can be scary at a certain point.

Seriously, 12 inches long? That's longer than my forearm! :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

newmember987

Idle Passerby wrote: »

Are you sure they aren't taking the piss? The size you describe sounds intimidating and uncomfortable rather than a thing of joy.

These women have told you this via text or social networks and aren't necessarily friends of yours, you say? Hmmm... Are they possibly being paid to say things of this sort? If so, I think you should be taking it with a massive pinch of salt.

Yes Im sure they're not taking the piss, why would 30 or so women take the p**s out of subject like this anyway ? 2 or 3 women maybe yeah, 30 or so though ?

Its tricky, they are friends I just dont get to see them everyday or every week

Its not easy to take a subject like this with a pinch of salt

Holsten

What % of men would even have penises that big? Average is like 5-6 inchs.

I don't think porn stars even have dicks at 10-11 inches, good luck to them haha!

newmember987

Ham Sambo wrote: »

if you bring up the subject with a girl as to the size and width of a preferred penis then they are going to take the pi*s

I dont find that I bring up the subject myself, if anything I find that women bring up the subject !!

Majority of the time though the subject just kind of comes up

I dont blatantly contact a girl just to find out whether I done okay or what she prefers or whatever, the subject just comes up I dont purposely bring the subject up out of nowhere

Taltos

OK OP as you can see there are no right answers here, so closing this thread.

For the others, MJ23; Mint Aero - if you suspect a troll or a windup please just report the posts/threads, posting on thread in the manner above can result in a warning/infraction/ban for you. And as bans are incremental in this forum that could well be a permanent ban.