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Confused.

  • 26-01-2014 12:38am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3


    I have gotten a text off an ex boyfriend the other day completely out of the blue I've yet to reply.

    He has told me he wants to be friends with me. I can't be friends with him because I am still not over the guy and it would be heartbreaking if I was really. Anyway we went our separate ways last year but we have kissed on and off.

    Since that stopped due to me wanting commitment, and other things that broke my heart, he has been mentioning this friends thing. I have told him time and time again friends isn't going to happen, yet after months of not speaking and him sending me a few sneaky snapchats to which I haven't replied, he once again comes to me about friendship once more.

    Can anybody give me some perspective into this guys mind? cheers. :)


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,687 ✭✭✭✭Penny Tration


    There's very little perspective needed. He's a head melt, simple as. Just block his number from your phone, you're torturing yourself by giving him an avenue to contact you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,656 ✭✭✭✭The Princess Bride


    Sounds like he wants a "friends with benefits" scenario,seeing as you've kissed on and off before.
    Stop contact and move on- he's obviously hurt you emotionally before and could do so again.Friends don't do that to one another.
    There are lots of men out there who'll treat you better.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 515 ✭✭✭Ham Sambo


    I agree with the other posters, delete his number or change your own number, it's obvious that he can see you are still mad about him and he is playing you along.


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