Ex boyfriend

Niamh1111

So my ex basically dumped me out of nowhere lol i thought everything was fine until one day while i was in my friends house we wer texting nd out of nowhere he just said he didnt want to see me anymore .... Like that was about 4 months ago and ive stayed friends with his friend (adam) that i met through him .... And about a whole month after he dumped me .. I was talking to adam and he thought that we were still together ..... Like one of his closest friends and he didnt even tell him that he dumped me ... A whole month after we broke up and he still thought we wer together until i told him we werent .... And i asked him y did he not say anything about us breaking up and adam said he didnt know like he actually asked him wer we still together (after we had broken up) and he said yes like we wer still together ... Now y the hell wud he say that like wtf he dumped me ...... And just recently i met up with adam ti c a movie and while we wer out my ex texted him sayin heyah like as yi do ... And adam texted back that hed talk ti him later cuz he was with me ... But it didnt send cuz he realized he had no credit lol ... But they wer in school n adam got credit n all the unsent texts sent and my ex got the txt and thought that me n adam were going out ... And my ex got sooooo pissed off with adam like he was screaming and callin him names n all like goin mental ... N like what ... He dumped me ... I can date whoever i want and so can adam like wtf y wud he get so angry tho he dumped me ......... I dunno im just confused .... He dumped me out of nowhere and ages after we broke up he was tellin people we wer still together ?? And now gettin that pissed off when he tot i was goin ou with adam ... Like what? I dont get it ?

Typer Monkey

Not to be condescending OP but I hope you all are teenagers otherwise it's all very juvenile :-) In a nutshell, he doesn't want you but his ego doesn't want his friend to have you either. If you like the friend go for it but don't do it to get one over on the ex or provoke a reaction from him.

You sound young. Go forth and enjoy the world, it's your oyster. Don't waste valuable time and effort feeding drama in your life. Only be with people who want to be with you. And so ends the old woman lecture..oh and wear sunscreen

bp

He doesn't want you but wants no one else to have you either. Also someone who shouts and rants like that isn't very mature and would not make a good boy friend! And dumping you by text.....that is just rude

Enjoy the company of friends, you are still young and just take it easy. There is plenty of time for relationships

Big Bag of Chips

Niamh1111, I am going to lock both of your threads until you read the Charter for the Relationship Issues Forum and confirm to me, via the PM facility that you understand what is the standard of posting expected in Personal Issues.

You have broken a number of the rules - no txtspk being one. It makes your post very difficult to read and puts people of offering advice. And it is also against our Charter to start multiple threads in a short period of time.

Please decide which thread you would like to remain open and I will reopen it. And please do not use txtspk anymore or you will pick up a ban from Personal Issues.