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Dating Question

  • 04-12-2013 10:17pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    So met a guy off one of the dating sites. We have really hit it off and we are meeting again very soon. We seem to have a lot in common. He keeps in very regular contact. All seems good and he seems to be a genuine, honest person.

    Except I never went back on to the site since and I just checked and he was on it today. Does that mean he is not into me as he is keeping his options open?

    I am new to this dating thing as I took a long break. What is the norm? Should I mention it? I don't want to seem pushy by just coming out with it. He does seem to like me.


Comments

  • #2
    Meauldsegosha
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,607 ✭✭✭Meauldsegosha


    It's fairly common for people on dating sites to see more than one person at a time. You've only had one date so try not to overthink things too much. If you have arranged a second date and are in regular contact that's good.

    Also if he is using the app on his phone it will keep him logged in all the time.


  • #3
    Geomy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,296 ✭✭✭Geomy


    He's probably just logged in via his mobile phone. ...
    I do the Internet dating myself and believe you me, that guy is interested if he's keeping regular contact.

    There's so many profiles and intrigue going on in those site's
    Mostly harmless flirting. ..

    I don't take it too seriously....


  • #4
    promises
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 102 ✭✭promises


    To be fair he maybe thinking the same thing as you were also on it today. Wouldn't worry about it yet but if he is still on it regularly after one month of dating - then it maybe time to get concerned.


  • #5
    Wednesday Addams
    Closed Accounts Posts: 47 ✭Wednesday Addams


    Sure he might even be checking if you were still on it :) Good luck with your date OP, it all sounds good so far!


  • #6
    miamee
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Regional East Moderators, Regional North West Moderators Posts: 12,526 Mod ✭✭✭✭miamee


    There are no commitments made after one date. He is keeping in touch with you and wants to see you again. If all goes well over the next few dates, then you can think about bringing up exclusivity. If he really likes you he will have lost interest in seeing other people anyway, hopefully :)

    Best of luck!


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