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  • 30-11-2013 4:19am
    #1
    river man
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6 ✭


    My girlfriend on two occasions has kissed two different people on the lips and iam thinking of ending it am i making a big deal over nothing or would you accept it either 3 strikes and shes out or live with it please i need advice.


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  • #2
    padma
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,874 ✭✭✭padma


    I'd move on if I have doubts. If she doesn't think there's anything wrong with it would she be happy if you were out kissing other women?


  • #3
    December2012
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,695 ✭✭✭December2012


    I don't think you're making a big deal out of nothing. It depends on other factors though - as in is she sorry? Has she asked for forgiveness?


  • #4
    CaraMay
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭CaraMay


    Do you consider it cheating? What was the context?


  • #5
    Stavro Mueller
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,673 ✭✭✭Stavro Mueller


    CaraMay wrote: »
    Do you consider it cheating? What was the context?

    This is what it boils down to. Some people consider kissing someone else to be cheating and a dealbreaker. Others say it's only a kiss and for them cheating is having sex with another person.

    Do you trust your girlfriend is the biggie. If she goes out with her friends can you say, hand on heart, that she's not going to snog another bloke?


  • #6
    im confused again
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 59 ✭✭im confused again


    More detail needed, was it just a peck with a friend saying hello or goodbye, or was it a long passionate kiss.

    If its the later, then it is totally unacceptable behaviour in my book, and I wouldn't be putting up with it.


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  • #7
    river man
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6 ✭river man


    im confused again wrote: »
    More detail needed, was it just a peck with a friend saying hello or goodbye, or was it a long passionate kiss.

    If its the later, then it is totally unacceptable behaviour in my book, and I wouldn't be putting up with it.

    She said it was a kiss on the lips but if i dont act now it could be more if i let her away with it.


  • #8
    Stavro Mueller
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,673 ✭✭✭Stavro Mueller


    So what do you mean by "act now"? Keep her under 24 hour surveillance? Electronically tag her?

    Either you trust your girlfriend or you don't. And secondly, if she's the sort who cheats why would you want to be with her?
    What age are you anyway?


  • #9
    Big Bag of Chips
    Administrators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 14,914 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    river man, you have 2 identical threads open, so I will lock this one.


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