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It's still a Man's world

  • 26-11-2013 2:08am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,620 ✭✭✭


    Following is a list of male privileges. If you are male (and a man), listed below are benefits that result from being born with that gender and sex.

    If you identify as a man, there’s a good chance you’ve never thought about these things. Try and be more cognizant of these privileges in your daily life and you’ll understand how much work we have to do to make a society that is equitable to all people, regardless of their gender.

    If you have a bad day or are in a bad mood, people aren’t going to blame it on your sex
    You can be careless with your money and not have people blame it on your sex
    You can be a careless driver and not have people blame it on your sex
    You can be confident that your coworkers won’t assume you were hired because of your sex
    If you are never promoted, it isn’t because of your sex
    You can expect to be paid equitably for the work you do, and not paid less because of your sex
    If you are unable to succeed in your career, that won’t be seen as evidence against your sex in the workplace
    A decision to hire you won’t be based on whether or not the employer assumes you will be having children in the near future
    Work comfortably (or walk down a public street) without the fear of sexual harassment
    Walk alone at night without the fear of being raped or otherwise harmed
    Go on a date with a stranger without the fear of being raped
    Dress how you want and not worry it will be used as a defense if you are raped
    If you are straight, you are not likely to be abused by your partner, or to be told to continue living in an abusive household for your children
    You can decide not to have children and not have your masculinity questioned
    If you choose to have children, you will praised for caring for your children, instead of being expected to be the full-time caretaker
    Balance a career and a family without being called selfish for not staying at home (or being constantly pressured to stay at home)
    If you are straight and decide to have children with your partner, you can assume this will not affect your career
    If you rise to prominence in an organization/role, no one will assume it is because you slept your way to the top
    You can seek political office without having your sex be a part of your platform
    You can seek political office without fear of your relationship with your children, or who you hire to take care of them, being scrutinized by the press
    Most political representatives share your sex, particularly the higher-ups
    Your political officials fight for issues that pertain to your sex
    You can ask for the “person in charge” and will likely be greeted by a member of your sex
    As a child, you were able to find plenty of non-limiting, gender role stereotyped media to view
    You can not care about your appearance without worrying about about being criticized at work or in social situations
    You can spend time on your appearance without having people criticizing you for upholding unhealthy gender norms
    If you’re not conventionally attractive (or in shape), you don’t have to worry as much about that negatively affecting your potential
    You are not pressured by peers and society to be thin as much as the opposite sex
    You’re not expected to spend excessive amounts of money on grooming, style, and appearance to fit in, while making less money than the opposite sex
    Have promiscuous sex and be viewed positively for it
    You can go to a car dealership or mechanic and assume you’ll get a fair deal and not be taken advantage of
    Expressions and conventional language reflects your sex (e.g., mailman, “all men are created equal”)
    Every major religion in the world is led by individuals of your sex
    You can practice religion without subjugating yourself or thinking of yourself as less because of your sex
    You are less likely to be interrupted than members of the opposite sex


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,193 ✭✭✭Wompa1


    a

    You've opened my mind. Do you have a blog or newsletter I can subscribe to?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Koloman


    That you Mary??


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I literally hate the original post.

    It is bull**** and makes my eyes and heart sad.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 401 ✭✭theblaqueguy


    Go back under your bridge!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,800 ✭✭✭Lingua Franca


    Deja vu, OP. You're being eviscerated over here: http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2057091231


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,620 ✭✭✭enfant terrible


    Deja vu, OP. You're being eviscerated over here: http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2057091231

    Tough crowd :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,119 ✭✭✭poundapunnet


    This will end well.

    Check yo privilege you man bastards you! I can't even buy a goddamn car without being ripped off because of ye :mad::mad::mad: Ye FECKERS!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,800 ✭✭✭Lingua Franca


    Clearly. Did you think an identical thread would go any better for you?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,620 ✭✭✭enfant terrible


    Clearly. Did you think an identical thread would go any better for you?

    They are different, even have different titles.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 536 ✭✭✭April O Neill II


    Men can't come to harm out walking late at night? Wha'? Men are probably more likely to be started on than women are to be attacked, I reckon.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,618 ✭✭✭The Diabolical Monocle


    Yeah ...but if you have an itchy crotch while standing outside a girls school


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 753 ✭✭✭Jonny Blaze


    Isn't after hours supposed to be a 'fun' forum?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 712 ✭✭✭SweepTheLeg


    Time of the month yeah?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,218 ✭✭✭✭B.A._Baracus


    Hey op,
    Why don't you say the above if you are aboard a sinking ship and the captain says "men and women first on the lifeboats" ... oh wait ... you wouldnt ;)

    Tell me i'm wrong :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,113 ✭✭✭shruikan2553


    You can be a careless driver and not have people blame it on your sex

    Don't have time right now to explain everthing wrong from the copy paste job from feminists united but for this one my car insurance suggests otherwise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,071 ✭✭✭✭wp_rathead



    If you are straight, you are not likely to be abused by your partner, or to be told to continue living in an abusive household for your children

    ...wow.. :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,724 ✭✭✭seenitall


    wprathead wrote: »
    ...wow.. :rolleyes:

    Enfant terrible is intent on doing a little siht-stirring this evening, as all enfants terribles are wont to do from time to time...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,071 ✭✭✭✭wp_rathead


    seenitall wrote: »
    Enfant terrible is intent on doing a little siht-stirring this evening, as all enfants terribles are wont to do from time to time...

    Haha Ah i know that but seems what ever site enfant copied and pasted this from legitamitly thought what i quoted was valid - mind boggling


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,547 ✭✭✭Foxhound38


    I've been reading Politics.ie today (I'm a glutton for punishment) and they are discussing the struggle of women (or should I say womyn, according to the linked OP). It's about as big a clusterfcuk as you can get there - and that's saying something, and quite hilarious. Mad in the head radical feminists vs. equally mad in the head misogynists.

    http://www.politics.ie/forum/culture-community/213710-how-successful-feminist-ally-one-lads.html


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,359 ✭✭✭ldxo15wus6fpgm


    Following is a list of male privileges. If you are male (and a man), listed below are benefits that result from being born with that gender and sex.

    If you identify as a man, there’s a good chance you’ve never thought about these things. Try and be more cognizant of these privileges in your daily life and you’ll understand how much work we have to do to make a society that is equitable to all people, regardless of their gender.

    If you have a bad day or are in a bad mood, people aren’t going to blame it on your sex Plenty of people blame men's anger on them being men. Men are described as overly aggressive/angry by women all the time
    You can be careless with your money and not have people blame it on your sex not entirely true - but yes women get it worse than men in this regard
    You can be a careless driver and not have people blame it on your sex Really. Why is it then that until very recently males, especially young males were charged sometimes 3 times as much as females equivalent age and experience - the boy racer stereotype
    You can be confident that your coworkers won’t assume you were hired because of your sex depends totally on the industry you work in
    If you are never promoted, it isn’t because of your sex not true, especially when there are spiteful women in upper management (in my experience!)
    You can expect to be paid equitably for the work you do, and not paid less because of your sex again depends on the industry
    If you are unable to succeed in your career, that won’t be seen as evidence against your sex in the workplace depends on the industry
    A decision to hire you won’t be based on whether or not the employer assumes you will be having children in the near future can't argue with that but it's down to anatomy
    Work comfortably (or walk down a public street) without the fear of sexual harassment women can sexually assault men too you know
    Walk alone at night without the fear of being raped or otherwise harmedTrue, men are never attacked at night sure! :rolleyes:
    Go on a date with a stranger without the fear of being raped Pretty sure I've read news stories where women have date raped men. Gay men might have this danger when dealing with other men too.
    Dress how you want and not worry it will be used as a defense if you are raped rapists cannot use the clothing of their victim as any form of defense in most of the civilised world
    If you are straight, you are not likely to be abused by your partner, or to be told to continue living in an abusive household for your children statistiaclly less likely to be abused, but it happens, there is a lot more abuse against men than is reported too, for obvious reasons. Much harder for men to be taken seriously in this regard
    You can decide not to have children and not have your masculinity questioned women can decide to not have children without having their femininity questioned too. Plenty of women who want to focus on their career and don't get any stick over it, they are empowered women blah blah blah
    If you choose to have children, you will praised for caring for your children, instead of being expected to be the full-time caretaker there are loads of stay at home dads out there, and single dads too. But yes you don't hear too many women being praised for raising their kids. Don't hear too many men being praised either.
    Balance a career and a family without being called selfish for not staying at home (or being constantly pressured to stay at home) See above. Plenty of empowered women out there with stay at home husbands/boyfriends etc. who focus on their career
    If you are straight and decide to have children with your partner, you can assume this will not affect your career not entirely. bosses aren't too keen on kids at all seeing as either parent will have more reasons to need to leave early/ come in late/ miss work altogether
    If you rise to prominence in an organization/role, no one will assume it is because you slept your way to the top I agree that such accusations are less common against men but I have heard them being made against guys first hand
    You can seek political office without having your sex be a part of your platform I've never seen any election posters purposely pointing out the candidate's gender before...
    You can seek political office without fear of your relationship with your children, or who you hire to take care of them, being scrutinized by the press not sure what you mean by this one tbh. Never heard of any female politicians getting stick over their relationships with their kids
    Most political representatives share your sex, particularly the higher-ups less women run for office in the first place so this is bound to be the case - I daresay there are fewer women than men deeply interested in politics
    Your political officials fight for issues that pertain to your sex there are never issues about women's health/rights etc. brought up in parliament sure!
    You can ask for the “person in charge” and will likely be greeted by a member of your sex depending on where you are
    As a child, you were able to find plenty of non-limiting, gender role stereotyped media to view again not sure what you mean
    You can not care about your appearance without worrying about about being criticized at work or in social situations I and most other men get barked at if I come in to work unshaven, despite it sometimes being very painful to wet shave 5 days in a row. Don't know many men who aren't alcoholics who would actually be present in a social situation if they weren't groomed to a decent standard.
    You can spend time on your appearance without having people criticizing you for upholding unhealthy gender norms no we get criticised for being big girls' blouses for caring what we look like!
    If you’re not conventionally attractive (or in shape), you don’t have to worry as much about that negatively affecting your potential maybe at work, but ugly men tend to have far less confidence than ugly women, in my experience. A not very attractive girl will still find a partner with a reasonable degree of ease, while an ugly man will find it very tough indeed
    You are not pressured by peers and society to be thin as much as the opposite sex not true at all. In fact I'd say fat men get more things said directly to their face about their weight than women
    You’re not expected to spend excessive amounts of money on grooming, style, and appearance to fit in, while making less money than the opposite sex any such expectations of women are held in place by other women, not men
    Have promiscuous sex and be viewed positively for it by some other men, yes, but definitely not by women. some women get praised for being brave and admitting to having multiple sexual partners! You're making a big blanket statement here.
    You can go to a car dealership or mechanic and assume you’ll get a fair deal and not be taken advantage of total BS. I know more men than women who have been shafted by mechanics because they haven't got a clue what is going on and are too ashamed to admit it
    Expressions and conventional language reflects your sex (e.g., mailman, “all men are created equal”) and what impact does that have on anything?
    Every major religion in the world is led by individuals of your sex again, the impact of which is?
    You can practice religion without subjugating yourself or thinking of yourself as less because of your sex depends on the religion doesn't it?
    You are less likely to be interrupted than members of the opposite sex depends on the situation and who you're talking to...

    EDIT I called this tripe. It's actually just ignorance, lazy generalisations and a lack of common sense!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 930 ✭✭✭poeticseraphim


    It's still a Man's world .... but it would be NOOOOOOTHIN WITHOUT A WOMAAAAAAN OOOR A GIIIRL OOOH YEAH

    This is a mans world
    But it would be nothing, nothing
    Not one little thing
    Without a women or a girl

    He's lost in the wilderness
    He's lost in bitterness

    James Brown said it .

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juTeHsKPWhY

    If this thread does nothing else it will let you listen to James Brown ....real music


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,324 ✭✭✭BillyMitchel


    Walk up half hr early, see this crap posted on boards and go back to sleep.

    OP this is terrible.

    OP what do you do if a woman cones running at you with a knife?

    zzzzZZZZ


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,987 ✭✭✭Legs.Eleven


    Another cry for attention like a massive, oversized mutant adult-baby. Pretty cringy stuff to wake up to. Yikes!


  • Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    This thread was already closed by another mod and for good reason.

    Keep this bollox out of AH please.


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