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Family values

  • 06-11-2013 2:19pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,314 ✭✭✭


    There's a young girl that works part time with me. She's a very polite very smart we'll spoken Mauritian girl and she's graduating from DCU on Saturday.

    Here's the thing. It seems on Saturday there's a graduation ball, but because her aunt and uncle are visiting from the UK she is expected to stay at home and have dinner with them out of respect. They are staying for a week, surely there's plenty of time for eating with them and showing of respect but she says it would be rude of her to not be there on Saturday evening.

    While I get where she's coming from and can in some small way understand it,the other side of me is saying
    What the hell! You've been studying your arse off for years go out and enjoy yourself. I mean her aunt and uncle are in their seventies they're probably going to be in bed by 10 o'clock so what's she to do then, watch a. Bleedin factor repeat?

    Anyway I suppose it just strikes me as strange that someone has this attitude towards family in this day and age. I can't imagine an Irish person, myself included staying in to entertain the relatives.

    So what say ye. Go out and drink jäger bombs till you puke out your nose or stay at home and mind auntie?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    weiland79 wrote: »
    There's a young girl that works part time with me. She's a very polite very smart we'll spoken Mauritian girl and she's graduating from DCU on Saturday.

    Here's the thing. It seems on Saturday there's a graduation ball, but because her aunt and uncle are visiting from the UK she is expected to stay at home and have dinner with them out of respect. They are staying for a week, surely there's plenty of time for eating with them and showing of respect but she says it would be rude of her to not be there on Saturday evening.

    While I get where she's coming from and can in some small way understand it,the other side of me is saying
    What the hell! You've been studying your arse off for years go out and enjoy yourself. I mean her aunt and uncle are in their seventies they're probably going to be in bed by 10 o'clock so what's she to do then, watch a. Bleedin factor repeat?

    Anyway I suppose it just strikes me as strange that someone has this attitude towards family in this day and age. I can't imagine an Irish person, myself included staying in to entertain the relatives.

    So what say ye. Go out and drink jäger bombs till you puke out your nose or stay at home and mind auntie?


    You were hoping for the shift, weren't ye.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,314 ✭✭✭weiland79


    Ha ha I knew the first comment would be about me riding her!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Maybe she would rather be at home rather than hanging out with a bunch of off their head students.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    No doubt - stay at home with family.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,339 ✭✭✭Artful_Badger


    To be honest I'd rather stay in for dinner with family I hadnt seen in a while too as opposed to going out and getting ****faced with a bunch of idiot kids.

    Each to their own I suppose.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,059 ✭✭✭WilyCoyote


    weiland79 wrote: »
    Ha ha I knew the first comment would be about me riding her!

    Yeah. Doing it the other way would be revolting with all that puke about


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,314 ✭✭✭weiland79


    I suppose she'll have seen plenty of student nights and what that entails over the past four years and probably doesn't think she'll be missing much


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    weiland79 wrote: »
    Ha ha I knew the first comment would be about me riding her!


    We're men. If we're free and unless she looks way way way too young, its exactly what we'd think.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    I spent the night of my graduation chasing whelks around Smithfield Market in Dublin. I wasn't stoned or anything, I was delivering them and they escaped from the fishboxes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,339 ✭✭✭Artful_Badger


    I spent the night of my graduation chasing whelks around Smithfield Market in Dublin. I wasn't stoned or anything, I was delivering them and they escaped from the fishboxes.

    Aren't whelks snails ? Couldnt have been much of an escape or much of a chase. You sure you weren't stoned ?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,782 ✭✭✭dmc17


    weiland79 wrote: »
    Go out and drink jäger bombs till you puke out your nose

    Since she's not Irish she probably doesn't understand this form of celebration (or maybe she does and thus why she's not doing it). Maybe they celebrate differently in Mauritius too. Who knows. I'm sure she'll do what she's happy doing though.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    Aren't whelks snails ? Couldnt have been much of an escape or much of a chase. You sure you weren't stoned ?
    There was about four thousand of them, you'd be surprised how far a snail can get in a short space of time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,314 ✭✭✭weiland79


    eviltwin wrote: »
    Maybe she would rather be at home rather than hanging out with a bunch of off their head students.
    dmc17 wrote: »
    Since she's not Irish she probably doesn't understand this form of celebration (or maybe she does and thus why she's not doing it). Maybe they celebrate differently in Mauritius too. Who knows. I'm sure she'll do what she's happy doing though.

    Yes of course but can't I still start a thread on boards and point my finger and say

    Look at her! She does things differently to me


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,294 ✭✭✭thee glitz


    weiland79 wrote: »
    10 o'clock so what's she to do then, watch a. Bleedin factor repeat?
    10 is quite late

    /PeepShowMark


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,220 ✭✭✭✭biko


    I hope she has a nice dinner. The relatives flew very far indeed and probably wouldn't be very impressed if she chose drink and dance over them.

    How about you ask her out after they've gone back home instead?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    weiland79 wrote: »
    There's a young girl that works part time with me. She's a very polite very smart we'll spoken Mauritian girl and she's graduating from DCU on Saturday.

    Here's the thing. It seems on Saturday there's a graduation ball, but because her aunt and uncle are visiting from the UK she is expected to stay at home and have dinner with them out of respect. They are staying for a week, surely there's plenty of time for eating with them and showing of respect but she says it would be rude of her to not be there on Saturday evening.

    Ehm...you seem to have given us an awful lot of information on the object of your infatuation this girl.

    Anyone who knows a Mauritian girl graduating from DCU on Saturday will know her surely....and point her to this thread....and then she'll work out who you are....and then she'll get a restraining order.

    Ireland is a small place.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,009 ✭✭✭Tangatagamadda Chaddabinga Bonga Bungo


    weiland79 wrote: »
    There's a young girl that works part time with me. She's a very polite very smart we'll spoken Mauritian girl and she's graduating from DCU on Saturday.

    Here's the thing. It seems on Saturday there's a graduation ball, but because her aunt and uncle are visiting from the UK she is expected to stay at home and have dinner with them out of respect. They are staying for a week, surely there's plenty of time for eating with them and showing of respect but she says it would be rude of her to not be there on Saturday evening.

    While I get where she's coming from and can in some small way understand it,the other side of me is saying
    What the hell! You've been studying your arse off for years go out and enjoy yourself. I mean her aunt and uncle are in their seventies they're probably going to be in bed by 10 o'clock so what's she to do then, watch a. Bleedin factor repeat?

    Anyway I suppose it just strikes me as strange that someone has this attitude towards family in this day and age. I can't imagine an Irish person, myself included staying in to entertain the relatives.

    So what say ye. Go out and drink jäger bombs till you puke out your nose or stay at home and mind auntie?

    Invite yourself to the house. Insist on it! Gather a few, say 4 or 5 junkies who look really dangerous. Buy 4 litres of Jäger. See what happens. Could turn out to be a good night for everyone...or not. Either way, you should definitely do this.

    My advice is free and your night will be priceless. ****ing WINNING!

    Report back to us afterwards. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,314 ✭✭✭weiland79


    Ehm...you seem to have given us an awful lot of information on the object of your infatuation this girl.

    Anyone who knows a Mauritian girl graduating from DCU on Saturday will know her surely....and point her to this thread....and then she'll work out who you are....and then she'll get a restraining order.

    Ireland is a small place.

    True but she's a good skin I'm sure she won't mind, in fact I'll show her the thread to avoid any sort of embarrassment.
    I wasn't so much commenting on the fact that she doesn't want to go out and get **** faced but the fact that she holds such respect for the family unit. Something I think is lacking in our society.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    weiland79 wrote: »
    True but she's a good skin I'm sure she won't mind, in fact I'll show her the thread to avoid any sort of embarrassment.
    I wasn't so much commenting on the fact that she doesn't want to go out and get **** faced but the fact that she holds such respect for the family unit. Something I think is lacking in our society.


    That's nice.





    Please don't kill them. They didn't mean to intrude.


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