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how did I get to this?

  • 01-11-2013 1:09am
    #1
    deise08
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,331 ✭✭✭


    Hey lads I'm sitting here thinkin how did I get to this? I'm not a bad lookin girl I hope. I'm easy to get on wit I think. but gradually over the past few years I've gone from having the option of going out every night to being sitting in. now every night :( organised to go out wit my friend tonight but she brought her boyfriend and her boyfriend couple friends out too :( how do I meet new people? feel like I'm in a rut now or really starting to think there's somethin wrong wit me :(


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  • #2
    December2012
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,695 ✭✭✭December2012


    Aren't your friends boyfriends friends new people to meet?


  • #3
    deise08
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,331 ✭✭✭deise08


    December2012 wrote: »
    Aren't your friends boyfriends friends new people to meet?

    You're right :) silly me


  • #4
    Tokyo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,656 ✭✭✭✭Tokyo


    deise08 wrote: »
    ...feel like I'm in a rut now...

    You hit the nail on the head whether you realise it or not. You're stuck in a routine, and if you need to make changes to that if you expect your social life to change too. Best thing I can suggest is finding an interest and taking classes - nothing like friends who have something in common to talk about. Dance classes, fitness workouts, woodwork, whatever, take your pick. Chances are you'll find yourself going for a few pints with the group after class on a regular basis before long...


  • #5
    sReq | uTeK
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,022 ✭✭✭sReq | uTeK


    Maybe your friend is being a better friend than you think, maybe she knows you've not had much luck recently, then she brings over a good few possibly single guys and its still a negative for you?

    Perhaps you need to be more optimistic


  • #6
    deise08
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,331 ✭✭✭deise08


    It was another couple. and ya I guess they were new people. And they were nice alright but they were her boyfriends. Guess I've just limited myself to having just one friend that I can call on for stuff. and I know she has her relationship now and I am really happy for her.


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