Girlfriend is leaving the country

kennyja

Hey so I'm just wondering if anyone out there has had the same situation and could share there thoughts.

So basically I met a my girlfriend at the beginning of September and we have really hit it off. I know its cliche to say but I've never been so crazy about a woman so quickly or felt this way about anyone. I'm 24 and she's nearly 26.

The problem is that she is Brazilian and is going back home in a few weeks. I am already feeling quite sad about this and I'm a bit worried about how I'll feel when she leaves. We have spent everyday together since the first night that we met so we have become very close very quickly.

Also she was very honest with me from the start that she was leaving and I know she hasnt just been using me until she goes back, I've met her Mother as she is visiting at the moment and I am meeting her sister this week too so I think she is just as serious about us as me.

All my friends and familiy that have met her tell me how great we are together and this is by the far the happiest I have ever been with someone. My main concern is that I dont know what she will be like when she goes home whether she will forget me or not. Im planning on visiting in February for a month and her mother was insisting that I visit. She also told me that she is feeling really sad to go back home.

Has this ever happened to anyone and did yous ever reconnect, I really feel like in a few years I could marry this girl but I am so scared of just never knowing because of the distance between us and differences in language and cultures.

Thanks

maria34

Is she going back for good? Sure u have talked about it.

FestyOSemtex

kennyja wrote: »

Hey so I'm just wondering if anyone out there has had the same situation and could share there thoughts.

So basically I met a my girlfriend at the beginning of September and we have really hit it off. I know its cliche to say but I've never been so crazy about a woman so quickly or felt this way about anyone. I'm 24 and she's nearly 26.

The problem is that she is Brazilian and is going back home in a few weeks. I am already feeling quite sad about this and I'm a bit worried about how I'll feel when she leaves. We have spent everyday together since the first night that we met so we have become very close very quickly.

Also she was very honest with me from the start that she was leaving and I know she hasnt just been using me until she goes back, I've met her Mother as she is visiting at the moment and I am meeting her sister this week too so I think she is just as serious about us as me.

All my friends and familiy that have met her tell me how great we are together and this is by the far the happiest I have ever been with someone. My main concern is that I dont know what she will be like when she goes home whether she will forget me or not. Im planning on visiting in February for a month and her mother was insisting that I visit. She also told me that she is feeling really sad to go back home.

Has this ever happened to anyone and did yous ever reconnect, I really feel like in a few years I could marry this girl but I am so scared of just never knowing because of the distance between us and differences in language and cultures.

Thanks

If you feel that strong about her, why dont you up sticks to Brazil to be with her, that if she wont be back again.

Guffy

Get her knocked up

kennyja

Yeah I think she's going back for good, shes very family orientated and she has it much easier there. I plan on visiting her in a few months but I need to save money first.

Ha I dont think getting her knocked up is a solution, babys are for life, not just xmas

Taltos

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Thanks
Taltos

FestyOSemtex

kennyja wrote: »

Yeah I think she's going back for good, shes very family orientated and she has it much easier there. I plan on visiting her in a few months but I need to save money first.

Ha I dont think getting her knocked up is a solution, babys are for life, not just xmas

Save up for a CELTA course. Study it here and head to Brazil to teach English. While there you can learn Portuguese and if all things go well with you and your lack, I dont think you will ever leave.

Brazil.....babes, beaches, ball and samba.

You lucky, lucky bastard :pac: