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breaking an access order

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  • 22-10-2013 6:56pm
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    loulou85
    Registered Users Posts: 3 ✭


    Hi everyone Im wondering if anyone can give me some advice on breaking a court order. My ex partner took me to court for guardianship of my little boy and also an access order. Since we split up he has turned very nasty and bitter towards me. I always comply with the order and agree if he needs to change his days or times etc. I asked him today if I could hold onto my little boy on a weekend that he is supposed to have him and for him to have my little boy another weekend as it is my nephews christening and we really wany my little boy to be a part of it. We dont have a big family and my little boy only gets to see his little cousins every few months. My ex said that it wasent ok to swap weekends. He said its his weekend to have him and hes having him. He is absolutely impossible. I don't know what to do. Do I break the court order and bring my little boy regardless or is there another way of doing things. I would be really grateful if anyone has any advice for me. Thanks :)


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    Bepolite
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,737 ✭✭✭Bepolite


    Obey the court order. No matter what the relationship is between you and your ex, it's what his relationship is like between him and the child is what matters. If thats at issue you go back to court.

    In the words of the worlds foremost expert on this (IMO) "You picked him".


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    loulou85
    Registered Users Posts: 3 ✭loulou85


    Bepolite wrote: »
    Obey the court order. No matter what the relationship is between you and your ex, it's what his relationship is like between him and the child is what matters. If thats at issue you go back to court.

    In the words of the worlds foremost expert on this (IMO) "You picked him".

    Yes I did pick him unfortunately. People change and he changed dramatically for the worst. Hes very bitter and twisted. He took my little boy one day and didnt bring him home. Wouldnt tell me where he was and I eventually found out that he had taken my little boy to his ex girlfriends house for the night. I told him that he wasent having the child overnight anymore but he could see him any day that he liked. He then took me to court for overnight access. Thats how it all started


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    Cody Pomeray
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,648 ✭✭✭Cody Pomeray


    I doubt it constitutes legal advice to say "obey the law".

    Obey the law.
    Bepolite wrote: »
    In the words of the worlds foremost expert on this (IMO) "You picked him".
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