anything to vent or get off your chest?

karareilly

ill start, iam literally sick to my stomach, moved home to ireland from Canada which i lived in for almost 20 months, after a break up! that i didnt see coming or wanted.... home just over a week pulked up the courage to go down to my socail welfare office dis morning to find it closed.. got soaked to the bone...also found out that because i surrendered my full irish licence for a Canadian one which i dont have i now have to do my test again!! seemly i cant just get a replacement one why? on top of that everyday since i got home iam ringing the airport to see if my suitcase has been found it has not... :mad:

Ed Winchester

Welcome home anyway!

super_furry

I like big butts but I can lie.

Muise...

karareilly wrote: »

ill start, iam literally sick to my stomach, moved home to ireland from Canada which i lived in for almost 20 months, after a break up! that i didnt see coming or wanted.... home just over a week pulked up the courage to go down to my socail welfare office dis morning to find it closed.. got soaked to the bone...also found out that because i surrendered my full irish licence for a Canadian one which i dont have i now have to do my test again!! seemly i cant just get a replacement one why? on top of that everyday since i got home iam ringing the airport to see if my suitcase has been found it has not... :mad:

get a cup of tea/coffee/hot whiskey, warm dry clothes, and spend the rest of the day catching up with nice people. Start again tomorrow. Welcome home.

stefan idiot jones

Stop putting the rubbish in the recycle bin.

If I've told you once I've told you a thousand times.

Maximus Alexander

You should change your location.

LaughOrDie

Go back to Canada!

Hardonraging

Try not and focus on the negative .... things could be worse ..

Noxin

the fook did you come back here for?

Rayne Wooney

I was in the gym yesterday roish, and this guy totally like leaves the 25kgs on the bar, so I had to take them off myself and put two 50kgs on roish, I was totally like peed off don't they pay people to do that?? And to top it all of roish, there was no bottled water left, so I had to like use the poor people water to make my protein shake. Worst day ever loike

Itwasntme.

I am sorry OP. Sometimes life can be overwhelmingly ****ty. Like the other posters have said, try to focus on the positives even if you have to dig them out of dusty old suitcases and surround yourself with things that make you happy. Failing that, buy a mountain of chocolate, make yourself a cup of tea and settle into a really good book. It works for me.

mathie

Hardonraging wrote: »

Try not and focus on the negative .... things could be worse ..

Hate this phrase.
Things can always be worse.

Dont forget to turn off the immersion

Muise...

mathie wrote: »

Hate this phrase.
Things can always be worse.

this is why I'm always optimistic. :pac:

Hardonraging

mathie wrote: »

Hate this phrase.
Things can always be worse.

Of course they can ... but things will never get better, if you sit around focusing in the negative ... 'pick your self up and move on' ... that's the key phrase .

Savoir.Faire

I had the extreme displeasure of having to spend a couple of nights in Calgary a number of years ago. A dreadful city, with more culture in a Petit Filous yogurt. If it wasn't for an enjoyable and robust encounter with a rather wanton Canadian lady then I wouldn't have a single positive thing to say about the place.

You've had a bad few days since you got back. But you aren't there!

AnonoBoy

GET THEE TO A NUNNERY!!!!!

Also Ranting and Raving forum that-a-way >>>>>>>>

Legs.Eleven

Itwasntme. wrote: »

I am sorry OP. Sometimes life can be overwhelmingly ****ty. Like the other posters have said, try to focus on the positives even if you have to dig them out of dusty old suitcases and surround yourself with things that make you happy. Failing that, buy a mountain of chocolate, make yourself a cup of tea and settle into a really good book. It works for me.

I agree. When the **** goes down, do nice things for yourself. Do the things you missed doing when you were over there.

If I was in your shoes i.e. in Ireland, I'd get out in that fresh air, breath 'er in good 'n' proper and go for a long walk with good music in my ears, sit in the kitchen and drink cups of tea/wine with my family and just feel their presence, catch up with old friends and go out for a night on the lash, which is always great fun at home.

It always takes time to settle home when you've been away for so long (been there, done that) so give it time. You'll be grand. Welcome home!

Jester252

mathie wrote: »

Hate this phrase.
Things can always be worse.

You just said the exact same thing.

mathie

Jester252 wrote: »

You just said the exact same thing.

The universe can now implode happily.

BabyGorilla

mathie wrote: »

Hate this phrase.
Things can always be worse.

Funny isn't it.....sht is always ready and waiting to go wrong, yet things going right/good things aren't the same, they dont happen by themselves, they require intervention.

For example, why is it that a bridge or house is always ready to collapse...yet its never the case that in life a bridge/house is ready to automatically manifest.
You'll hear of good folks dying terrible needless deaths, but not people you liked coming back to life. you can trip and hurt yourself but not trip and suddenly feel good. why the fvck is this world pitched against us.
Weird post I know. But ya gotta question the fundamentals sometimes.

Maximus Alexander

BabyGorilla wrote: »

Funny isn't it.....sht is always ready and waiting to go wrong, yet things going right/good things aren't the same, they dont happen by themselves, they require intervention.

For example, why is it that a bridge or house is always ready to collapse...yet its never the case that in life a bridge/house is ready to automatically manifest.
You'll hear of good folks dying terrible needless deaths, but not people you liked coming back to life. you can trip and hurt yourself but not trip and suddenly feel good. why the fvck is this world pitched against us.
Weird post I know. But ya gotta question the fundamentals sometimes.

Simple answer really, the universe isn't intelligent and doesn't give a single solitary **** about any of us. The things we want go counter to nature, so you're always going to have to fight to make them happen.

Renegade Mechanic

Welcome home, op:) Have yourself a day (or week) off with a middle finger to the world and start over!

Waitsian

Maximus Alexander wrote: »

You should change your location.

Calgary eh?

You're better off out of it. I was in it for 3 days once - never again.

zl1whqvjs75cdy

Grim in calgary alright, sure OP booze didn't go up too much in the budget so its ok.

Waitsian

Jake1 wrote: »

Dont forget to turn off the immersion

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=52bna-tn_dY

Itwasntme.

Renegade Mechanic wrote: »

Welcome home, op:) Have yourself a day (or week) off with a middle finger to the world and start over!

I like this advice .