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Complicated breakup........

  • 08-10-2013 8:28pm
    #1
    my_pie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40 ✭


    Hi all, i've recently parted ways with an amazing girl who i was with for 5 years.
    the breakup came 7 months but we patched things up, and then her mother passed away, i was there for her but we broke up again.

    i have been there for this girl every step of the way and honestly am confused as what to do, since she is in grieving should i just leave her alone? i still love her very much and would do anything for her, but im pushed away....

    its made harder by the fact that we are now in different countries for a while,

    ive been thinking about just going to see her, if she still feels the same at least i tried, right? id be stupid to not go right? even if i get rejected. we havent seen each other since the breakup which was a few weeks ago, an i would have went sooner but i simply couldnt leave due to work, but i could leave right now......

    any thoughts.


Comments

  • #2
    wirelessdude01
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,429 ✭✭✭wirelessdude01


    I take it that she broke it off. I would say leave it for the moment.


  • #3
    road_high
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,657 ✭✭✭✭road_high


    wirelessdude01 wrote: »
    I take it that she broke it off. I would say leave it for the moment.

    Yea I'd leave her alone too. If she wants to she will contact you. But certainly don't put your life in hold hoping the two of yas will get back together. Get out there and enjoy yourself. It's been a hard time for you too, break ups are emotionally draining.
    Sounds like things weren't going great for a while before it ended. How would the next time be any different? Unless those issues were addressed (by two willing parties).


  • #4
    Merkin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,230 ✭✭✭Merkin


    I'd leave her alone OP.


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