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Lack of Emotional Responce

  • 07-10-2013 10:20pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,221 ✭✭✭


    Hey all,

    So long story short, up until last Saturday I'd not been with anyone for 22 months:o

    That ended Saturday night, I was out and meet up with a girl I used to work with, we got chatting and dancing, we kissed and I brought back to mine and so on so forth...

    Now I get on really well with this girl, whenever we are together we tend to have a laugh and we would have a bit in common, and I'd be fairly comfortable around her(which doesn't apply to most women)...

    So the following morning was a little awkward, most likely me making it that way, but whatever, she went home, I went to work, But...Its Monday and its like nothing happened on Saturday night...

    My past experiences with women have been me getting very emotionally involved, over thinking everything, asking myself when will i text, how do i worked the text, asking my mates for advice...My attitude since Sunday has been more of "Ah sure I'll prob text her Monday, just see how she is", I've not text her yet and I don't know if or when I will...

    Its the polar opposite to the way I'd have reacted a few years back and I don't know if its a good thing or bad...I'd probably err on the side of bad TBH...

    I just don't know:confused:


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 59 ✭✭Rubylolz


    Dont over analyse or play games - if your interested text her if your not, dont.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Text her and see if she wants to meet up. If she does, great, if she doesn't, then fine. You had a one night stand.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,230 ✭✭✭Merkin


    If you want to see her again then get in contact and ask her if she'd like to meet up with you again, don't play mind games or over think it.


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