Being told I'm hard to please

shoes34

Not sure if I should be upset over this -

Was having sex with my boyfriend last night and he said to me when afterwards that I was hard to please - not sure how to take that, was it an insult at me ! I don't come as quick as him and I am not a screamer when I orgasm so maybe that is what he was getting at. I know he enjoys sex with me as he says he does.

has this happened to anyone else before, I mean we use lots of different positions.

heretochat

Post a bit short on detail - how long are you together, is this the first time he has said something like this, has there been any problems sexually before etc.

Maybe he is just concerned that he is not able to satisfy you and wants to make the experience as pleasurable as possible for you both..

In any event I think a little chat is in order so you can both be aware that there is nothing wrong with your sexual relationship.

wirelessdude01

Maybe he was just saying that it takes a lot for you to orgasm.

ManOfMystery

Bit of a weird thing to say. Without going into the gory details, had you said anything or acted any way during the act which would have made him feel he wasn't performing well enough? Or did he just say this completely out of the blue?

LegacyUser

So, OP, you are that intimate with your BF yet you go on the internet to ask a question only he can answer?

Merkin

Have you asked him what he meant?