A simple question

killer kilbane · 30-09-2013 4:30pm #1

Ok

Here I go simple question.....

Does been nice help someone fall in love?

wirelessdude01 · 30-09-2013 4:47pm

Question right back at ya.

Do you mean it is easier to fall in love with a nice person or that you being nice helps them to fall in love with you?

killer kilbane · 30-09-2013 4:50pm

ok been nice to them help them fall in love with you, when they like you already

wirelessdude01 · 30-09-2013 4:53pm

killer kilbane wrote: »

ok been nice to them help them fall in love with you, when they like you already

You can't force someone to fall in love with you. All you can do is be honest with both yourself and them in relation to both your actions and feelings and hope that it works out the way that you want. Nothing worse than pretending your something and then once you have them changing back to your normal self.
Just be yourself.

killer kilbane · 30-09-2013 5:01pm

i am but she calls it weird as in im very nice to her

wirelessdude01 · 30-09-2013 5:04pm

killer kilbane wrote: »

i am but she calls it weird as in im very nice to her

Why would someone consider being nice weird? She sounds like she has issues with self esteem and doesn't consider herself good enough to be treated nicely.

killer kilbane · 30-09-2013 5:07pm

i know it makes me think im doing something wrong, she keeps saying she is great looking etc she had been treated badly in past and says its not normal behaviour for her to have with her...

killer kilbane · 30-09-2013 10:06pm

its ok, i figured her out.... and she has the cheek to call me weird

dobman88 · 01-10-2013 2:32am

killer kilbane wrote: »

its ok, i figured her out.... and she has the cheek to call me weird

I would love for you to elaborate on that but this isn't the place. Sounds very interesting though. Sounds familiar tbh

killer kilbane · 01-10-2013 4:43am

dobman88 wrote: »

I would love for you to elaborate on that but this isn't the place. Sounds very interesting though. Sounds familiar tbh

I was talking with her, and we got our wires crossed about feelings.. I saw her as more than friend and she didn't.. but what she said was that she is friends with mostly guys because the say nice things about her and that make her feel better....

She is basically friends with guys just fir attention. And to build her ego

desbrook · 01-10-2013 4:55am

killer kilbane wrote: »

i am but she calls it weird as in im very nice to her

Lesson in love number 5467 my friend - a common excuse to not start or end a relationship with someone is that they are "too nice " . This excuse is usually used to try and not hurt the dumped persons feelings but is just that - an excuse. It is true that the dumper would date someone who treats them with less respect but you'll find that someone is usually better looking or whatever . Ie looks were the real issue

wirelessdude01 · 01-10-2013 7:07am

Hate that kind of crap. User is all she is She ain't a nice person at all. Well rid of her.

dobman88 · 01-10-2013 8:38am

killer kilbane wrote: »

I was talking with her, and we got our wires crossed about feelings.. I saw her as more than friend and she didn't.. but what she said was that she is friends with mostly guys because the say nice things about her and that make her feel better....

She is basically friends with guys just fir attention. And to build her ego

Yep, I knew it sounded familiar. Unlucky OP, better off without imo

A simple question

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