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Meeting Women

  • 23-09-2013 8:20am
    #1
    Canyon86
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,223 ✭✭✭


    Hi Lads,

    I m just after starting a new thread and I hope ye could help me out!

    Im trouble meeting women on nights out and in general with the last while!

    Ever since I left college this problem has exists,

    How do ye manage meeting women etc?

    Cheers lads,

    any advice will be grateful :)


Comments

  • #2
    Starokan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 746 ✭✭✭Starokan


    Have you tried online dating?, well worth a shot if you haven't


  • #3
    Meauldsegosha
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,607 ✭✭✭Meauldsegosha


    Starokan wrote: »
    Have you tried online dating?, well worth a shot if you haven't

    Online dating isn't the solution to all dating problems. It seems to be the stock answer here whenever a poster has a dating issue.

    OP, what is the nature of your issue? Your post doesn't give us a lot of information to work with. Do you have difficulty approaching women? Are you shy? What has changed since you left college?


  • #4
    claypigeon777
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 231 ✭✭claypigeon777


    If you see a woman you like go over and talk to her. If she likes you it will be pretty clear by how enthusiastically or in-enthusiastically she responds by what she says and her body language. Suggest you both go out and if she agrees get her number and arrange to meet for drink/movie/dinner etc. It's best to do the same with as many women as possible until you have a few women who seem like they are possibly interested. Many women will give out a number but they will not respond when you call or text but if you approach enough women a few women are sure to agree to go out with you. Take them out on different nights for fun dates where nothing has to happen and if you like one of them stick with her but keep the spare numbers just in case it doesn't work out. If she is proper girlfriend material dump the rest. If not keep looking until you find someone worth while. Just because a girl kisses you or has sex with you does not mean its serious and all your hard work can unravel because she goes back to an ex, she gets bored with you or she meets someone more attractive. Don't get upset about it. It takes a lot of effort but that's the whole fun of dating.

    It beats sitting at home watching TV into the small hours.


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