Feeling striped of my dignity. Advice please.

Mellytots

The last few months I have been working very hard to achieve my goals and have. However in the process I have also been very impulsive and done and said stupid things without thinking. I was very naïve and shared to much info with people who I wanted to trust but where not really my friend. I know now they used this info as ammunition against me. For some reason I was drawn to these people who are actually not nice. Don't know why I wanted their friendship at all. Its like I was blinded to how **** they where treating me. I feel like they have been backstabbing me, playing me, and manipulating me. It's like I have just discovered that I was in very dangerous territory. I feel that I stepped on the wrong peoples toes. There was envious people in this group wanting to bring me down.I Feel stupid and embarrassed for wasting time with these people. When I know they have been sneering and talking badly of me. I feel I gave them the power and ammunition to do this. it is really tormenting me to the point I feel physically sick. I am usually a lot more wiser than to fall into traps like this. I feel I was very down the last few months my defences where down and I was in a very vulnerable stage of my life. Any advice on how to get over this and move forward.

KwackerJack

You have achieved your goals in life and made a few mistakes along the way! Haven't we all?

Have these people achieved their goals? Are they in a position to be proud of where they are in life today? Most people like that are usually uneducated fools that prey on people to make themselves feel better and to mask the fact that there life is going no where fast.

If this is the case be proud of all the hard work you have put in and just ignore them. You living your life the way you want to will enraged them and eventually they will know in the mind (but they wont admit it) that you are better than them and will eventually crawl back in there little underworld

JuliusCaesar

This is not suited to the Psychology Forum, which is for discussion of psychology careers and psychological topics. I moved your other post to Personal Issues, under Soc. You might want to post there. CLOSED THREAD. JC