If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)

Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie

Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

Young guy who rarely gets with women

LegacyUser · 2013-09-02 14:22:51

Hi, just wanted to post about an issue which gets me down a lot; namely my lack of success with girls. I'm a 23 year old guy, and I've only ever had one sexual partner, whom I was with for 3 years until age 21. I'd describe myself as a decent looking guy (especially when I smile), but quite shy and introverted. Since…

02-09-2013 2:22pm

#1

LegacyUser

Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭

Join Date: -

Posts: 125685

Hi, just wanted to post about an issue which gets me down a lot; namely my lack of success with girls. I'm a 23 year old guy, and I've only ever had one sexual partner, whom I was with for 3 years until age 21. I'd describe myself as a decent looking guy (especially when I smile), but quite shy and introverted. Since breaking up with the ex, I've kissed roughly 8 or 9 girls, gone slightly further with some but haven't actually had sex. I know some of you might be already reading this thinking all I care about is increasing the number of people I have sex with, it's not though. I simply just enjoy sex and feel way behind other single guys of my age who probably have it a lot more than me! Basically isn't this the age where guys are in their prime so to speak, in terms of getting with girls? I can barely even talk to the opposite sex without a good few drinks on me! On Facebook nearly every other day I'd see posts on pages with pictures of girls that guys have spent the night with, and while I don't condone posting these pictures, it's pretty much a daily reminder of the fact other people are out there getting laid no problem ad i'm pretty much a failure at it. Thoughts of how the ex is probably easily able to get it don't help me. The few friends I do have are in relationships which really doesn't help my situation, both in terms of meeting new people and also in terms of loneliness. Any advice?

0