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Waking up to my girlfriend pt. II

  • 31-08-2013 6:37am
    #1
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 772 ✭✭✭


    The waking up to my GF thread had me thinking about how the OP's girlfriend and the other guy clicked, and I was thinking about a time in my life when I clicked with another guy's GF and something ended up happening. Just wondering if that's happened to anyone else here?

    My story:

    Enrolled in a month-long course during my work vacation last year. It was in a college a good distance from where I lived, so I had to commute for about 2 hours each way each day. Met a girl on the course who, it turned out, lived not too far from me in the city. For nearly the entire month, we used to get the subway and taxi together to class, and then back home again, and we really clicked and had good craic with each other. She had a boyfriend at the time.

    On the final day of the course, everyone in the class went out together, about 12 people, and we went to some bars and a karaoke place near the college after the final classes. Everyone got a bit locked, had a laugh, and we finished at around 3am or so. Myself and the girl went to an hotel and booked a room because it was too late to get back into the city.

    Got back there, and we were both a little nervous, but ended up taking a shower together and having sex that night and the next morning. Went for breakfast with the rest of the class and then took the 2-hour journey back into town, then she went home and I went home.

    We still keep in touch, have gone out for drinks together and hang out sometimes, but have never slept together again.


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,592 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    Part 1 was much better.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,273 ✭✭✭racso1975


    So you shagged a girl and then ended up in the "friends zone"?

    Buddy you got problems.........


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 311 ✭✭LottieP25


    Is she still with the boyfriend ?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 772 ✭✭✭Caonima


    racso1975 wrote: »
    So you shagged a girl and then ended up in the "friends zone"?

    Buddy you got problems.........

    Doesn't matter, had sex :D:D:D


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 772 ✭✭✭Caonima


    LottieP25 wrote: »
    Is she still with the boyfriend ?

    Yes, she is, and they live together.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,632 ✭✭✭Aint Eazy Being Cheezy


    So there was this one time, at band camp...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,592 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    The only way this story could be interesting is if the op is female.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 311 ✭✭LottieP25


    Caonima wrote: »
    Yes, she is, and they live together.

    Pretty ****ty thing to do then


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,379 ✭✭✭Skuxx


    Very misleading thread title OP, you havnt got a girlfriend! What happened was you rode another guys girlfriend.

    You scumbag!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,592 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    Skuxx wrote: »
    Very misleading thread title OP, you havnt got a girlfriend! What happened was you rode another guys girlfriend.

    You scumbag!

    Scumbags...plural.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Your performance was inadequate to make the transition from friend to bf.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,860 ✭✭✭Hooked


    Skuxx wrote: »
    Very misleading thread title OP, you havnt got a girlfriend! What happened was you rode another guys girlfriend.

    You scumbag!

    I don't know who to feel more sorry for. The OP for bragging about getting the ride off some two timing slapper, or the poor boyfriend still living with the bītch.

    I hope ye both get some karmic realignment...


    Homer: you can't sell that. Karma can only be portioned out by the cosmos.
    Apu: he's got me there

    - the Simpsons


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 998 ✭✭✭dharma200


    There are plenty websites where people can sumit their 'stories' online.....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,666 ✭✭✭tritium


    Caonima wrote: »
    Yes, she is, and they live together.

    What a lucky guy.......


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 960 ✭✭✭cletus van damme


    bit harsh calling the OP a scumbag based on one occasion of indiscretion.

    we can all fall


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,406 ✭✭✭Pompey Magnus


    bit harsh calling the OP a scumbag based on one occasion of indiscretion.

    we can all fall

    I think it is more the fact that he obviously doesn't realise that he failed is the issue, if he did he wouldn't be bragging about it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,379 ✭✭✭Skuxx


    bit harsh calling the OP a scumbag based on one occasion of indiscretion.

    we can all fall

    Personal Issues it that way
    >

    Plenty of people over there you can defend! This is AH and the OP is going to get a bit of grief!!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 772 ✭✭✭Caonima


    I think it is more the fact that he obviously doesn't realise that he failed is the issue, if he did he wouldn't be bragging about it.

    Apologies if it came across like I was bragging - I wasn't. The previous thread about the OP's GF and the stranger kinda spiked my memory. I realised that in the other thread, I sympathised with the OP, but then realised that I had been that one guy myself who was with another guy's girlfriend.

    I guess what also rings true is what the previous OP said about his GF hitting it off with this guy; I also hit it off pretty well with the girl. There was also alcohol involved. No excuses or anything... it just happened, but at times there is a kind of an "inevitable" vibe about... :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,609 ✭✭✭stoneill


    Where are all these girls?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,117 ✭✭✭✭MrJoeSoap


    Not so thinly veiled "I had sex" thread.


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  • Site Banned Posts: 51 ✭✭Tom M


    stoneill wrote: »
    Where are all these girls?

    Leave your mother's basement and you might find one.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 772 ✭✭✭Caonima


    MrJoeSoap wrote: »
    Not so thinly veiled "I had sex" thread.

    :pac: throw a stone in AH and you'll hit one. And it seems you can't help but reading them, Mr Soap :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,400 ✭✭✭lukesmom


    Caonima wrote: »
    The waking up to my GF thread had me thinking about how the OP's girlfriend and the other guy clicked, and I was thinking about a time in my life when I clicked with another guy's GF and something ended up happening. Just wondering if that's happened to anyone else here?

    My story:

    Enrolled in a month-long course during my work vacation last year. It was in a college a good distance from where I lived, so I had to commute for about 2 hours each way each day. Met a girl on the course who, it turned out, lived not too far from me in the city. For nearly the entire month, we used to get the subway and taxi together to class, and then back home again, and we really clicked and had good craic with each other. She had a boyfriend at the time.

    On the final day of the course, everyone in the class went out together, about 12 people, and we went to some bars and a karaoke place near the college after the final classes. Everyone got a bit locked, had a laugh, and we finished at around 3am or so. Myself and the girl went to an hotel and booked a room because it was too late to get back into the city.

    Got back there, and we were both a little nervous, but ended up taking a shower together and having sex that night and the next morning. Went for breakfast with the rest of the class and then took the 2-hour journey back into town, then she went home and I went home.

    We still keep in touch, have gone out for drinks together and hang out sometimes, but have never slept together again.


    Fixed

    Got back there, and we were both a little
    drunk, but ended up falling asleep.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,425 ✭✭✭Festy


    The OP is just fishing for thanks ;)


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 772 ✭✭✭Caonima


    Festy wrote: »
    The OP is just fishing for thanks ;)

    :D

    No. I just find it weird that on this website, with so many people, nobody else has stepped forward and said "yeah, I did that once, too".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,379 ✭✭✭Skuxx


    Caonima wrote: »
    :D

    No. I just find it weird that on this website, with so many people, nobody else has stepped forward and said "yeah, I did that once, too".

    You'd like that OP, someone to take the heat off you!! Nice try!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 772 ✭✭✭Caonima


    Skuxx wrote: »
    You'd like that OP, someone to take the heat off you!! Nice try!

    Why would I want someone to take the heat off me? I started the thread because I was interested in what people would say and if it had happened to anyone else. Why would I be looking for someone to take the heat off? Dummy :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,425 ✭✭✭Festy


    Caonima wrote: »
    :D

    No. I just find it weird that on this website, with so many people, nobody else has stepped forward and said "yeah, I did that once, too".

    Sure hang on now and I'll give you a thanks :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,158 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    What City was this?

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 772 ✭✭✭Caonima


    What City was this?

    Shanghai


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44,080 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz


    Shaghai you mean. :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,422 ✭✭✭✭Bruthal


    Caonima wrote: »
    :D

    No. I just find it weird that on this website, with so many people, nobody else has stepped forward and said "yeah, I did that once, too".

    If they did that, they would ruin their boards image of never doing any wrong.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    racso1975 wrote: »
    So you shagged a girl and then ended up in the "friends zone"?

    Buddy you got problems.........
    Or she had the horn for the OP, needed that itch scratched, but the boyfriend was/is the far better bet for a longterm relationship.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Shaghai you mean. :p
    Hang your head in shame. :D
    Caonima wrote: »
    :D

    No. I just find it weird that on this website, with so many people, nobody else has stepped forward and said "yeah, I did that once, too".
    *Puts hand up*. More than once too back in the day. Do I get a prize?

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,512 ✭✭✭Muise...


    Wibbs wrote: »

    *Puts hand up*. More than once too back in the day. Do I get a prize?

    only if you start a thread about it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,238 ✭✭✭humbert


    Ah After Hours, if we're not complaining about how conservative Ireland is we're out calling people slappers and scumbags for a sexual indiscretion.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,512 ✭✭✭Muise...


    humbert wrote: »
    Ah After Hours, if we're not complaining about how conservative Ireland is we're out calling people slappers and scumbags for a sexual indiscretion.

    AH: caught between a cock and a hard place. :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 960 ✭✭✭cletus van damme


    Skuxx wrote: »
    Personal Issues it that way
    >

    Plenty of people over there you can defend! This is AH and the OP is going to get a bit of grief!!

    jaysus no - the height of the moral highground over there would give me acrophobia


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,070 ✭✭✭Birroc


    Straight to DVD this one.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,124 ✭✭✭joe swanson


    So basically, to summarise, a scumbag and a slag had sex? Is that it?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Wacker The Attacker


    This why I,m never getting married


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 772 ✭✭✭Caonima


    humbert wrote: »
    Ah After Hours, if we're not complaining about how conservative Ireland is we're out calling people slappers and scumbags for a sexual indiscretion.

    I know I'd cop some grief for this, so it doesn't matter, really. Just strange to see people's reaction to honesty, though. Never tried to glorify it, just gave the details. What people do with that is their business :)


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