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How to accept Love?

LegacyUser · 2013-08-21 15:34:54

Hi. I basically have encountered a situation regarding Love that I'm having trouble dealing with. I've been dating a really great guy for the last 6 months or so, and I'm beginning to feel more than just like for him. This should be a really good thing and a very happy time but I'm finding it hard to admit to myself.…

21-08-2013 3:34pm

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Hi. I basically have encountered a situation regarding Love that I'm having trouble dealing with. I've been dating a really great guy for the last 6 months or so, and I'm beginning to feel more than just like for him. This should be a really good thing and a very happy time but I'm finding it hard to admit to myself.

Basically I was always a person who didn't think romantic Love was for me. Like I know it exists for others, and I never had a problem with that. I just never thought it would be for me, that it requires more feelings than I'm capable of giving. I know that it probably sounds silly to most of you, but I firmly believed this about myself. I'm finding it difficult to admit to myself now, never mind him. I always thought that I was a certain type of person and to find out that I'm not is kind of hard for me to accept.

So how do I get over myself so to speak and try and accept what I feel and enjoy it, instead of trying to fight it like I am now? I know it's a really silly issue, but it is affecting me I just don't know how to be in Love if that makes sense. I just want to be able to get over my uncomfortable feelings and see where this takes me, but I'm finding it a hard thing to do.

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