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Making all the effort.

  • 03-08-2013 9:51pm
    #1
    nowimtalking
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 143 ✭✭


    Should a friendship/relationship have an equal contribution from each person?

    What do you do if you're having to make all of the effort?


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  • #2
    CaraMay
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭CaraMay


    You pull back Nd stop making all the effort


  • #3
    freshpopcorn
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,211 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    A lot of people view friendships differently to others. Some people often feel the need to be in constant contact and always doing stuff together and other are happy with the odd text and doing something together every now and again. Both of these people value the friendship but their idea of what being a friend is different.


  • #4
    Stavro Mueller
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,673 ✭✭✭Stavro Mueller


    As a rule of thumb if you find yourself asking who's making more effort, then there is a problem. With people whose friendship I don't question, I honestly couldn't tell you what the ratios are.

    I think with most people you instinctively know if something's a bit "off". If you think that if you don't make contact with someone again, that you'll not hear from them again, then are they really worth "chasing"?


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