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Can the relationship be saved?

  • 31-07-2013 11:16pm
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    LegacyUser
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    My relationship of over a year seemed to be going very well until the last month or so. I'm not sure what happened, I thought it was that we were spending too much time together but now I'm thinking it is the accumulation of mistakes I have made throughout.

    There is no overt problem, and my oh doesn't think anything is wrong or at least won't say so. Now whenever we fight I get this deep sense of hopelessness, like I have already made too many mistakes in the relationship (mostly anxiety and paranoia), and I always end up teary and crying about it. I'm scared that maybe it is too far gone to be saved. I want to work on my problems but I can't change overnight either, and I feel like they have just lost a lot of respect for me. And then there is that sense of hopelessness. I don't want it to end, I love them and we were so happy, and my oh still seems to have faith in us.

    But why am I feeling in such despair lately and can't even really pinpoint why? Is it just the end of the honeymoon period maybe or have I done too many things wrong to fix it?


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