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Women throws Child-like tantrum at Husband - The Wimminz Culture

  • 29-07-2013 5:51pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21


    Hi all, I just want to start this thread off with a 'disclaimer' of sorts because I know some people would love to interpret this the wrong way. I'm not saying the culture among most men is better or worse, or that men don't have their problems as a whole. I am just looking at the modern 'Wimminz culture' in the same light, no more, no less.




    Now assuming you've watched the video: What is it that is making a portion of Western women act in this childish manner? I'm not saying it's most of them, or a minority of them, all I'm saying it that it's a significant number that can't be ignored or excuses made for them.

    I think it starts in the family, stemming from childhood. Families often treat girls much different from boys (duh). Boys seem - and this is true for my family - expected to 'make something' of themselves earlier, to provide for their own means of existence in a more real way before girls are expected. Girls are usually treated like 'princesses' and are given everything that they both need and want. The expectations for them are lowered because they are more protected by the family, socially and financially. Both of these are traditional values on sex that are still very prominent and practiced in Western society. It's just something that is.

    Many Western women today seem so obsessed with immature and very temporary things, having respect for nothing. This is what I'm (and others) are calling the Wimminz culture. The 'Sweet 16' mentality. Their main interests are shopping & spending sprees, celebrity culture, wining and dining, FB, and reality TV. A hell of a lot live pay check to pay check and feel they aren't responsible for the way they behave. There is nothing of substance existing in their lives. Just a routine of work, entertainment and fun. There is a distinct lack of respect for anyone outside themselves, like a spoiled child who's taken over the household, they demand the fruits of progress yet never expect to put back into the system, yet alone treat others with respect. "The corporate boyfriend' has usurped the actual boyfriend. Relationships are much staler and more meaningless than they used to be. Her life is dedicated to the company, the alpha male boss is her masculine figure. Setting up a family is ushered further and further into middle age. With a typical Sex and the City attitude she believes that pregnancy in her 40's is absolutely possible, not caring about the biological fact that it's unlikely. I've seen many women start college as normal, attractive, desirable girls, yet within months they've released their 'inner slut' and are seeing multiple guys at once, 'listing' guys they've slept with. I'd love to say this is uncommon, but it's not.

    Now, I say 'Western women' for a reason. Eastern women aren't like this. I've gone out with a few Eastern/South-Eastern European girls, East Asian girls - and the vast majority don't hold the above attitude or life purpose. In fact most were sensitive to other people's feelings and very feminine. They enjoyed poetry, painting, flower arrangements, religious study, weaving, visiting interesting places, hiking, walking, learning languages, as well as very interested in their jobs, going out places and formal university studies. They were the genuine thing. And no, I'm not being 'wistful' or 'conservative', most guys if they're honest see what I've pointed out too, and even women do!!

    Yet today, I find myself repulsed by this 'Wimminz culture' that's slowly being taking hold. I'm not surprised that men are giving up on marriage and children.

    TL:DR - [many] Women don't really act like women any more, men are opting out of dating/marrying/living with them.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,196 ✭✭✭MonkstownHoop




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,438 ✭✭✭✭endacl


    Post too long. Video too shouty!

    All the ladies I know act like ladies.

    ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    The sooner the schools are open the better.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,689 ✭✭✭Karl Stein


    It seems that you've put quite a lot of time into that load of bollocks.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    endacl wrote: »
    All the ladies I know act like ladies.

    ;)

    That's why they are ladies. You should see my mother fly off the handle, real internment material but apparently that's just yer classic mammy!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,802 ✭✭✭✭For Forks Sake


    Eh...Atari Jaguar?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 927 ✭✭✭AngeGal


    Pretty horrible to put that up if it really is his wife. Surely he knew she was bat**** crazy when he married her?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,386 ✭✭✭Killer Wench


    TheHeretic wrote: »
    H

    Yet today, I find myself repulsed by this 'Wimminz culture' that's slowly being taking hold. I'm not surprised that men are giving up on marriage and children.

    TL:DR - [many] Women don't really act like women any more, men are opting out of dating/marrying/living with them.

    For the others clicking into this post, the above is all you really need to take away from the OP.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,231 ✭✭✭BNMC


    Her kitchen must be huge if she has to drive a car around it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,804 ✭✭✭Sir Osis of Liver.


    If she was my missus Id bring her out on the fcukin lake alright and she wouldnt be coming back.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,963 ✭✭✭Meangadh


    No offense OP, but that's the biggest loada ****e I've ever read.

    Go off and get a hobby for yourself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,166 ✭✭✭Fr_Dougal


    Stop truck.
    Let her out.
    Drive off.
    No more whingey bitch.
    Profit.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,925 ✭✭✭✭anncoates


    I make a point of never reading anything that uses the word 'wimminz ' or similar as it's nearly always solely utilized by ironic blokey camaraderie mongs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21 TheHeretic


    Meangadh wrote: »
    No offense OP, but that's the biggest loada ****e I've ever read.

    Go off and get a hobby for yourself.


    Erm, I have a job, a girlfriend, I post on another forum, similar content. Thought I'd unload this on you guys!

    And you disagree, you forgot to say.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 372 ✭✭hawkeyethenoo


    the lad in the video is a prick though. quite clearly he keeps annoying her looking for her to react. two idiots.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    TheHeretic wrote: »
    ............. Thought I'd unload this on you guys!

    .

    ...the lavatory is the place for that, tbh.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭nocoverart


    I've muscles the size of turnips after scrolling through that OP.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    I'd say you are quite a catch, OP.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,798 ✭✭✭goose2005


    anncoates wrote: »
    I make a point of never reading anything that uses the word 'wimminz ' or similar as it's nearly always solely utilized by ironic blokey camaraderie mongs.

    or anything that mentions "western women" - it's an obvious red flag, like "international financiers"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,479 ✭✭✭Hootanany


    TheHeretic wrote: »
    Hi all, I just want to start this thread off with a 'disclaimer' of sorts because I know some people would love to interpret this the wrong way. A lot has been said in the media and in society of the 'lads culture' and the online 'bro culture', their pro's and con's - and this is all well and good. It's beneficial because it gets debate rolling and facts or falsehoods about them are ironed out with input from society at large. I'm not saying the culture among most men is better or worse, or that men don't have their problems as a whole. I am just looking at the modern 'Wimminz culture' in the same light, no more, no less.This is not an demonzing of a sex, but a observation of a pop-culture.




    Now assuming you've watched the video: What is it that is making a portion of Western women act in this childish manner? I'm not saying it's most of them, or a minority of them, all I'm saying it that it's a significant number that can't be ignored or excuses made for them. I'm just going to give you my take on it.

    I think it starts in the family, stemming from childhood. Families often treat girls much different from boys (duh). Boys seem - and this is true for my family - expected to 'make something' of themselves earlier, to provide for their own means of existence in a more real way before girls are expected. Girls are usually treated like 'princesses' and are given everything that they both need and want. The expectations for them are lowered because they are more protected by the family, socially and financially. Both of these are traditional values on sex that are still very prominent and practiced in Western society. It's just something that is.

    Many Western women today seem so obsessed with immature and very temporary things, having respect for nothing. This is what I'm (and others) are calling the Wimminz culture. The 'Sweet 16' mentality. Their main interests are shopping & spending sprees, celebrity culture, wining and dining, FB, and reality TV. A hell of a lot live pay check to pay check and feel they aren't responsible for the way they behave. There is nothing of substance existing in their lives. Just a routine of work, entertainment and fun. There is a distinct lack of respect for anyone outside themselves, like a spoiled child who's taken over the household, they demand the fruits of progress yet never expect to put back into the system, yet alone treat others with respect. "The corporate boyfriend' has usurped the actual boyfriend. Relationships are much staler and more meaningless than they used to be. Her life is dedicated to the company, the alpha male boss is her masculine figure. Setting up a family is ushered further and further into middle age. With a typical Sex and the City attitude she believes that pregnancy in her 40's is absolutely possible, not caring about the biological fact that it's unlikely. I've seen many women start college as normal, attractive, desirable girls, yet within months they've released their 'inner slut' and are seeing multiple guys at once, 'listing' guys they've slept with. I'd love to say this is uncommon, but it's not.

    Now, I say 'Western women' for a reason. Eastern women aren't like this. I've gone out with a few Eastern/South-Eastern European girls, East Asian girls - and the vast majority don't hold the above attitude or life purpose. In fact most were sensitive to other people's feelings and very feminine. They enjoyed poetry, painting, flower arrangements, religious study, weaving, visiting interesting places, hiking, walking, learning languages, as well as very interested in their jobs, going out places and formal university studies. They were the genuine thing. And no, I'm not being 'wistful' or 'conservative', most guys if they're honest see what I've pointed out too, and even women do!!

    Yet today, I find myself repulsed by this 'Wimminz culture' that's slowly being taking hold. I'm not surprised that men are giving up on marriage and children.

    TL:DR - [many] Women don't really act like women any more, men are opting out of dating/marrying/living with them.
    http://i373.photobucket.com/albums/oo173/SidneyFudnucker/UglyKid-1.jpg


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    the lad in the video is a prick though. quite clearly he keeps annoying her looking for her to react. two idiots.

    Did he beg for reason? Sorry, but there's no excuses for that kind of wanton childish insanity. Even at her relatively young age, real rattle out' the pram material and I can tell you guys get thrown in a rubber room for that stuff


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,084 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    anncoates wrote: »
    I make a point of never reading anything that uses the word 'wimminz ' or similar as it's nearly always solely utilized by ironic blokey camaraderie mongs.

    And do you read anything with the word "menz" in it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,346 ✭✭✭✭homerjay2005


    I'd say you are quite a catch, OP.

    the people commenting and insulting him are no better.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,963 ✭✭✭Meangadh


    TheHeretic wrote: »
    Erm, I have a job, a girlfriend, I post on another forum, similar content. Thought I'd unload this on you guys!

    And you disagree, you forgot to say.

    I didn't forget. I would have thought my description of it being a load of ****e implied that obviously I do disagree.

    As someone else said also, the use of the word "Wimminz" hardly strengthens your argument. It only proves to make those who have this viewpoint out to simply be going on a rant about how women's roles have changed over time and that they quite frankly feel threatened about it. Or if not threatened, they certainly don't like it.

    I'm not saying all changes are good, but Jesus what do you want, 1950s Ireland?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21 TheHeretic


    I'd say you are quite a catch, OP.


    Is pointing out a sacred cow too much for you guys? Women can't be untouchable, they are human too. They have problems just as we do.

    Pointing out that so many of them are selfish, immature and don't have a care about anything except for themselves is not wrong. It's pretty obvious the culture that has taken hold and which we see in the media.

    Call it what you will, 'the wimminz culture', 'The sweet 16/sex and the city mentality'. It's bad for us all.

    And thanks, the ahem.. 'missus' as you Irishes say will be pleased I'm sure. :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    the people commenting and insulting him are no better.

    sure we are, we didn't start a thread with that post.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    TheHeretic wrote: »
    Is pointing out a sacred cow too much for you guys? Women can't be untouchable, they are human too. They have problems just as we do.

    Pointing out that so many of them are selfish, immature and don't have a care about anything except for themselves is not wrong. It's pretty obvious the culture that has taken hold and which we see in the media.

    Call it what you will, 'the wimminz culture', 'The sweet 16/sex and the city mentality'. It's bad for us all.

    And thanks, the ahem.. 'missus' as you Irishes say will be pleased.

    I hate when girls do that **** too. Your post was faux-intellectual nonsense.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    It seems that you've put quite a lot of time into that load of bollocks.

    I'll take your word for it if you say it's bollocks, couldn't bother my ass reading it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,963 ✭✭✭Meangadh


    And do you read anything with the word "menz" in it?

    Who the hell says "menz"?!

    I wouldn't give much regard to anything that had that in it if I ever saw it though, no.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    I don't like how some women can now act like men yet then pull this stuff.

    Where is the l'amour, I ask. Where is the emotional capacity, not in blowing a capacitor I tell thee


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,048 ✭✭✭Da Shins Kelly


    TheHeretic wrote: »
    Pointing out that so many of them are selfish, immature and don't have a care about anything except for themselves is not wrong.

    That is people in general across the Western world, as far as I can see, not just "wimminz".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    anncoates wrote: »
    I make a point of never reading anything that uses the word 'wimminz ' or similar as it's nearly always solely utilized by ironic blokey camaraderie mongs.
    please refrain from using the word "mong", it is offensive to retards.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21 TheHeretic


    That is people in general across the Western world, as far as I can see, not just "wimminz".


    I agree with you. But we hear about it all the time, especially with the 'lads culture' of supposedly selfish men, but never from society's perspective of the 'wimminz culture'.

    It's only fair to look at this issue.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    That is people in general across the Western world, as far as I can see, not just "wimminz".

    Yep, people who are in the looney bin. Mostly male but I will trust this phenomenon is menstrual and just put up with it. Not that its a turn off or anything; besides a lady would keep it under wraps


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    TheHeretic wrote: »
    I agree with you. But we hear about it all the time, especially with the 'lads culture' of supposedly selfish men, but never from society's perspective of the 'wimminz culture'.

    It's only fair to look at this issue.
    stop saying wimminz, it makes you sound like a mong


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,963 ✭✭✭Meangadh


    TheHeretic wrote: »

    Pointing out that so many of them are selfish, immature and don't have a care about anything except for themselves is not wrong.

    That can be said for ALL human beings, not just women.

    Some people are kind, and some are not.

    And also: saying "so many" is simply crap.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,788 ✭✭✭tritium


    anncoates wrote: »
    I make a point of never reading anything that uses the word 'wimminz ' or similar as it's nearly always solely utilized by ironic blokey camaraderie mongs.

    I seem to recall from a thread a few months back that that particular spelling was actually a feminist one as part of some sort of counter culture blah blah blah nonsense

    Which is in itself enough reason to avoid I guess


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21 TheHeretic


    I hate when girls do that **** too. Your post was faux-intellectual nonsense.


    Maybe I just have a better vocabulary than you do? ;)


  • Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Take your misogynistic crap elsewhere.


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