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seperation

  • 25-07-2013 10:15PM
    #1
    sophieali
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15 ✭


    Hi Im separated from my partner for the past year we have two children six and three. We both love our children and for their sakes we get along as best we can. our little boy took it very hard so I try to be there for them at night when they go to bed and take them to school some mornings. My problem is that a social welfare inspector has started hassling my ex saying we are cohabiting and even when she told him to search the house on a surprise visit he declined but has called her in again today to say that I am cohabiting with her. We have nothing to hide we are putting our children first but how do we make him see this.


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  • #2
    desbrook
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,847 ✭✭✭desbrook


    sophieali wrote: »
    Hi Im separated from my partner for the past year we have two children six and three. We both love our children and for their sakes we get along as best we can. our little boy took it very hard so I try to be there for them at night when they go to bed and take them to school some mornings. My problem is that a social welfare inspector has started hassling my ex saying we are cohabiting and even when she told him to search the house on a surprise visit he declined but has called her in again today to say that I am cohabiting with her. We have nothing to hide we are putting our children first but how do we make him see this.

    Has he contacted you personally OP?


  • #3
    sophieali
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15 ✭sophieali


    desbrook wrote: »
    Has he contacted you personally OP?

    No he only wants to speak to her not sure if I should make contact with him


  • #4
    desbrook
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,847 ✭✭✭desbrook


    sophieali wrote: »
    No he only wants to speak to her not sure if I should make contact with him

    I'm presuming ( maybe wrongly) that you recieve social welfare too OP in which case it seems strange that you have recieved no communication and yet you are by name being accused of cohabiting. I don't mean to labour the point but have you seen the written correspondence on the matter?


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