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Social issue

  • 17-07-2013 2:08pm
    #1
    jteurolda
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 ✭


    i'm not an antisocial person at all. a lot of people would normally call me "quiet". but I'm never nervous to engage in a conversation with someone. I feel like where the problem lies is during casual conversation; like normal things teens would talk about. a lot of times when someone says something to me that's just a casual or humorous suggestion, I'll laugh and go along with it and say "yeahh hahah". and this isnt all the time, but frequent. on the other hand, Ill get deeper in conversation when were talking about something that actually requires objective to think about. this has kind of revealed to me that I'm a logical thinker. and i feel like a lot of the reason why Im not present as much in casual talk.
    and even sometimes I feel like Ill do really well and lighten up a lot, but only during these rare times where Im not inside my head, and during these times, you can even ask people, ill be saying goofy ****, be loud and completely opposite. I feel like the majority of the time though, I'm too much in my head and the normal troubles happen. and what sucks is that gets even worse if I sleep less then i should. then im literally like a zombie

    I just need some tips on how I can get out of my logical mind, and be able to flourish in casual conversation. I know theres ways to practice it, and I know its possible for me to achieve it. both my parents are very outgoing, and my siblings definitely show a difference from me. so i know i can get there if i try hard enough.

    any help anyone could offer would be much appreciated. THANKS


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