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relationship problems

  • 07-07-2013 2:42pm
    #1
    cubancigars
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 ✭


    I have made a few mistakes over our relationship. Porn is a problem with me. I am a true voyeur. And this has been a problem in our relationship. I have tried to show her named body off to a friend while she was asleep. And yesterday I had my phone hidden in the bathroom. While her friends were over. Was trying to see there ass while they went for pee.
    But my gf went in and seen my phone.
    So after these to prity major things which I have been cought for. She has left.
    Does anyone know how or where I can get some help or Info on fixing / getting rid of these toughts in my head.
    I need help.
    Professional help.


Comments

  • #2
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 4,630 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Moved from Expand Your Horizons to Personal Issues.


  • #3
    Calhoun
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,447 ✭✭✭Calhoun


    I don't think being into voyeurism is your problem to be honest, there are many folk that are into stuff like that and explore their passion in a constructive way.

    What you did on the other hand was explore the above without consent. That's when you crossed a line and it became wrong.

    I am not sure who you could be referred to but pointing out that its not a simple case of have "impure thoughts".


  • #4
    RossFixxxed
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,102 ✭✭✭RossFixxxed


    cubancigars wrote: »
    I have made a few mistakes over our relationship. Porn is a problem with me. I am a true voyeur. And this has been a problem in our relationship. I have tried to show her named body off to a friend while she was asleep. And yesterday I had my phone hidden in the bathroom. While her friends were over. Was trying to see there ass while they went for pee.
    But my gf went in and seen my phone.
    So after these to prity major things which I have been cought for. She has left.
    Does anyone know how or where I can get some help or Info on fixing / getting rid of these toughts in my head.
    I need help.
    Professional help.

    You need professional help. Showing her off while sleeping and cameras in the toilet is so far beyond a 'fethis' or being 'voyeuristic' it's not funny. I can't even begin to address it. GP Now mate or sex offenders register, your choice.


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