Dunno if this guy is interested?? hope he is... :(

stop animal cruelty

So met this guy a month ago today in a night club. his 29 lm 21 . we texted & met up a week later. He drove almost an hour away from where l live to meet me & paid for everything on the "first" date. The date was ok, movie was crap, few slients but we had a good bit in common & a few laughs. Felt he gave me all the signs he was interested. texted me that night saying it was fun etc....anyway we were texting away l say "lm only up out of bed" he goes " oh wouldnt mind waking up next to you" l goes "stop you making me blush haha" didnt hear anything for a week after that (which l thought was a bit strange) so l texted him any news etc etc asked if he was going out that night & if he wanted to meet. I also said if you dont just say. He didnt text back for almosy 10 hrs saying whats your plan for tonight..went on to explain...he said he wasnt going out but "would be all for meeting up again maybe if your interested" said l was..he told me have a good night dont have too much fun(messing).

Didnt hear from him for 3 weeks. The ball was in his court to text me to ask about meeting up (as l did it last time) til yday got a text hey howr you etc etc. Hes taking hours to text back. Asked me if l was out tonight said l wasnt cause lm working havent heard from him since 4pm today.

wtf is this about? l do like the guy like when l met him l got the impression he was decent & really nice but l just dont get this "on/off" kinda vibe l know l wasnt coming across desperate or anything.

l just dont get it. sorry for the long story, some mighten make sense but lm just fed up. l deleted his number last week cause l was pretty sure he wasnt interested. l dont wana be the one asking him again if he wanted to meet. Wish he would text & ask me

What do ye think? I have a feeling what some might say men :mad:

LegacyUser

hes just not that into you.. i wouldnt engage in futher texts/ meets if i were you, you will just keep wondering what is going on etc

plenty more fish in the sea

Stavro Mueller

I could be wrong of course but it looks to me like he's not interested. Or (dons tin hat) he already has a girlfriend. Generally when a guy disappears like that and then pops up just when you'd consigned him to history, it's because his diary for the evening is empty and he's hoping you'll fill it. This story bears all the hallmarks of a guy who's just keeping his options open. Not replying to texts for hours on end, disappearing for weeks at a time, vanishing into the ether again when it turns out you're not available at a time that suits him..

stop animal cruelty

no l know he hasn't a girlfriend..was thinking that maybe he texts cause he has nothing better to do alrite...

newuser30

You sound way too invested in this after one date. He's keeping his options open. You didn't hear from him for 3 weeks after his night out and you actually texted him back after that? If you must reply to him next time tell him you think its just weird him texting you out of the blue like that.

stop animal cruelty

ya l texted him back after 3 weeks l want to keep lm options open too, l wouldn't mind seeing him again & maybe l can judge him better if we do...l was gonna say how come you've texted out of the blue, l should have.

Forever Hopeful

If a guy is interested in you, you wouldn't be going through this head melt. He's not interested just likes female attention. Sorry to be harsh but you are not a priority for him. If you were, you wouldn't be waiting 3 weeks to hear from him.

stop animal cruelty

no you're not being harsh, your prob right!

carzony

stop animal cruelty wrote: »

ya l texted him back after 3 weeks l want to keep lm options open too, l wouldn't mind seeing him again & maybe l can judge him better if we do...l was gonna say how come you've texted out of the blue, l should have.

speaking as a man here, If there was a women I like i'd text her back any opportunity I got and certaintly wouldnt leave with no contact for 3 whole weeks. Seems like a timewaster and there the worst kind :mad: Had a women do somthing similar and it's very annoying, especially if you like them :mad:

stop animal cruelty

^very annoying alrite! thanks for all the replies...lv seen sense, hes a time waster, not worth another thought...

he can feck off!