Girl help needed for shy guy

ChapOfDRyans

Hi everyone just want to say thank you to any replys i get . . .

This girl i know through a place i used to work with has been away in college, we always got on very well and goes without saying how.mad about her i am . . Now she is back around and we are both out of a long relationships . . We have met up a few times . Once she asked me.to go to a friends of hers party. . We were both drunk and very close ended up staying with her but nothing happened . . It happened a second time when we just hung out watching tv at hers where she made me dinner . . Ended up staying again in her bed with out anything happening but everytime i wake she has my hand held and cuddled into me . . And she is always asking me to hang out . . . . Besides all this i get a vibe she has no intrest keeps distance in the bed . . Tried to kiss when drunk but was short lived although she did kiss me a few times on lips and cheek . . .

Big thing is im horribly horribly shy but would love to date her and her be my girlfriend as im mad about her and we get on so well . .

Do all of ye think im in a friend zone or am i gonna man up and say how i fell or how do i approach it ?

judgefudge

I think if you've stayed in her bed and kissed and cuddled a few times (no matter how short lived) its highly unlikely you're in the friend zone. It's hard for me to advise you how to get over shyness. All I can say is that the signs are good that she likes you. Maybe she was distant in the bed because she is also shy? Girls don't always know exactly what they are doing.

Ask her on a proper date. And good luck!

December2012

How about you ask her to come out for dinner one night, and if she says "yes" then say "great, then it's a date".

Light hearted, simple, breezy, your cards are on the table but not in a very vulnerable way.