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Gay wedding

  • 15-06-2013 2:16pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 413 ✭✭


    Hi all, hoping somebody can explain this to me. Was reading in today's indo, that former 98fm boss Chris Doyle married his partner Sean Munsanje in a ceremony in Killarney. I am delighted for them and the positive media coverage it is getting. But it is a gay wedding, so how does that work? Will it just not be officially recognized?


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 880 ✭✭✭Rachiee


    Gay marriage is currently not legal in Ireland they would have had a civil parnership, its separate institution only available to gay couples that affords a very specific list of rights and responsibilties re: inheritance, kinship, property and separation. And specifically excludes from many other rights associated with civil marriage such as adoption, step parenting etc


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 413 ✭✭dsane1


    Rachiee wrote: »
    Gay marriage is currently not legal in Ireland they would have had a civil parnership, its separate institution only available to gay couples that affords a very specific list of rights and responsibilties re: inheritance, kinship, property and separation. And specifically excludes from many other rights associated with civil marriage such as adoption, step parenting etc

    Thanks for the reply, that's what I thought. Just the article says wedding and refers to the 2 guys as the grooms.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 880 ✭✭✭Rachiee


    There is no law against referring to the ceremony as a wedding or or the people getting their civil partnership as grooms its just not a marriage


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 413 ✭✭dsane1


    Rachiee wrote: »
    There is no law against referring to the ceremony as a wedding or or the people getting their civil partnership as grooms its just not a marriage
    Ok, thanks for enlightening me. Is there a correct name for a couple getting a civil partnership? Grooms, brides etc?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,156 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    dsane1 wrote: »
    Ok, thanks for enlightening me. Is there a correct name for a couple getting a civil partnership? Grooms, brides etc?

    No not really

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 13,098 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    Wedding and marriage are not the same thing - the wedding is the ceremony, the marriage is the legal status of the couple.

    I saw an old college friend post on his FB page that another guy we were in college with married his same-sex partner in England - I would never have guessed that he was gay from college days and he certainly wasn't out back then but I'm very happy for him.

    The very next day he and his wife went to another marriage of another old college classmate, also in the UK - this time it was a straight wedding!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,790 ✭✭✭✭BattleCorp


    Rachiee wrote: »
    Gay marriage is currently not legal in Ireland they would have had a civil parnership, its separate institution only available to gay couples that affords a very specific list of rights and responsibilties re: inheritance, kinship, property and separation. And specifically excludes from many other rights associated with civil marriage such as adoption, step parenting etc


    I think it is available to straight couples also - if they want civil partnership as opposed to marriage.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,156 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    BattleCorp wrote: »
    I think it is available to straight couples also - if they want civil partnership as opposed to marriage.

    No

    Only same sex couples can have a civil partnership

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 522 ✭✭✭Conor30


    BattleCorp wrote: »
    I think it is available to straight couples also - if they want civil partnership as opposed to marriage.

    No, only gays can avail of civil partnership, unless I'm mistaken. Only straights can avail of full marriage, whether civil or religious.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,790 ✭✭✭✭BattleCorp


    No

    Only same sex couples can have a civil partnership


    Well feck that, I'm being discriminated against so. :eek:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 202 ✭✭KDII


    BattleCorp wrote: »
    Well feck that, I'm being discriminated against so. :eek:



    You really aren't.


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