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looking for advice on a relationship (with seperated wife)

  • 10-06-2013 8:50am
    #1
    hotdog52
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4 ✭


    Hi all
    I have a question that I'm hoping someone will help me out
    I'm away from my wife 2 years over the last 6 months we have being "dating" in secret she doesn't want many people knowing (apart for two of her sisters) recently she decided to wear her eternity ring on her ring hand ... Can someone please advise me is this a good sign for us as a couple or is it a case of she likes the ring and away of telling people she is available for dating that she has children :-/ any advice would be greatly appreciated thanks


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  • #2
    desbrook
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,847 ✭✭✭desbrook


    The biggest reason for marriages to break down is lack of communication you know . My advice is very simple - talk to her and ask her how she feels and while you are at it tell her how you feel .


  • #3
    hotdog52
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4 ✭hotdog52


    desbrook wrote: »
    The biggest reason for marriages to break down is lack of communication you know . My advice is very simple - talk to her and ask her how she feels and while you are at it tell her how you feel .
    Hi
    Yes I have told her how much she means to me and that I miss her and love her she acknowledged the fact that I have feelings for her ... I was just wondering about the symbolic element of putting her eternity ring back on her hand albeit her right hand and not her wedding finger ... Thanks for the reply


  • #4
    desbrook
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,847 ✭✭✭desbrook


    hotdog52 wrote: »
    Hi
    Yes I have told her how much she means to me and that I miss her and love her she acknowledged the fact that I have feelings for her ... I was just wondering about the symbolic element of putting her eternity ring back on her hand albeit her right hand and not her wedding finger ... Thanks for the reply

    "she acknowledged the fact that I have feelings for her "

    Yeah - but how does SHE feel ?? What she says/does is more important than some ring . In itself yes the ring is a good sign but it's very very minor .


  • #5
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    More appropriate here OP.
    For those who have followed please note the RI Charter now applies.

    Thanks
    Taltos


  • #6
    hotdog52
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4 ✭hotdog52


    desbrook wrote: »
    "she acknowledged the fact that I have feelings for her "

    Yeah - but how does SHE feel ?? What she says/does is more important than some ring . In itself yes the ring is a good sign but it's very very minor .
    Ok cheers thank you for taking the time out for the replies much appreciated


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  • #7
    kat.mac
    Closed Accounts Posts: 390 ✭✭kat.mac


    hotdog52 wrote: »
    I was just wondering about the symbolic element of putting her eternity ring back on her hand

    Hi OP, realistically the only person who can answer that question is your wife - ask the straight question, you deserve a straight answer.


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