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Flirting in texts ?!

  • 28-05-2013 5:32pm
    #1
    msg11
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,572 ✭✭✭


    More a question than a situation!

    Basically I have always wondered. Should you flirt in texts ? Personally I don't do it for the simple reason. I don't know how to flirt! Maybe I am too prude or afraid it would give the wrong impression.

    Like at the moment, I am texting someone. Now I have not got flirty in the texts nor has she sent me any flirty . We have hooked up on a few dates, kisses, cuddles etc. So I am not sure if this is a problem? Just don't want to push the whole thing into the dreaded friendzone !

    So looking for a few options on this or is it perfectly normal to just text normal conversation over the text line, rather than 'suck my nipples' sort of stuff !


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  • #2
    judgefudge
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 915 ✭✭✭judgefudge


    Well there's a difference between 'suck my nipples' and flirty texts. I think if it doesn't come naturally don't try too hard to be flirty. Just say normal things that will let her know you're into her like "I can't wait to see you" etc.


  • #3
    Meauldsegosha
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,607 ✭✭✭Meauldsegosha


    I dont think "suck on my nipples" is flirting more sexting. The thing is flirting is not something you can force it has to come naturally.

    If you have kissed and cuddled after dates you're not in the friend zone. Just keep going and do what feels comfortable.

    Enjoy.


  • #4
    msg11
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,572 ✭✭✭msg11


    Cheers guys for that.

    Just for the record , I have never text anyone asking to 'suck my nipples' and as you can see I am awful at flirting/sexting !

    So it would not be natural at all .


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