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Feeling left out

  • 22-05-2013 7:34pm
    #1
    SureYWouldntYa
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,799 ✭✭✭


    For a while iv been feeling sort of left out amongst my group of friends. Iv missed a lot of the nights out because i cant get into the local nightclub because of a petty arguement with one of the bouncers, im not scum i swear. So whenever id get the usual messages before a night out, id always say no because the night ends up at said nightclub fairly early. Id always feel on the outside when they'd talk about the night etc.

    Last night, there was a house party hosted by someone we'd all know but only a few would be very friendly with. All of them were there, except me. Didn't get even one invite or an are you going to x's. Seeing the photos on FB has me left a little upset, even though im used to seeing them from the club nights but because i cant go to them, im annoyed because i could have gone and would have been with all of them and had fun for the first time in over 2 months.

    Im confused over what i should do, should i bite my tongue and say nothing or ask one of them why they didnt think to say something.

    Thanks in advance for anyone who takes the time to read this


Comments

  • #2
    HowAreWe
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 659 ✭✭✭HowAreWe


    petty argument? Are you a messy drunk?

    I've had my fair share of problems with bouncers but usually the next time I go they joke about it or they forget, is it a bit more than that? anyway....

    if it happens again maybe mention it to your closest of the group, jokingly "oh thanks for the invite by the way!" .

    They might have just forgotten since you haven't been out in a while, or maybe didn't bother asking because every time they ask you say no.

    It happens, I've done it to people without knowing because there might be a big enough group going already. Don't wait for others to make it happen for you, ask about what's going on in future, plan things too.

    I've felt like that before and I'm sure a lot of us have.
    I'm guessing you're around 18 or 19 too? I might be wrong but anyway you'll soon realize it doesn't matter, there will be plenty more nights.


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