Not atracted

OscarMike

Hello peeps...

Here is the thing, i got in a realationship not long ago, and we had sex like 3 times now . thing is i cant finish , i mean she enjoyes and everything but i cant finish , all of sudden erection goes away while im still in...

i cant figure why and what should i do

judgefudge

It seems from your thread title you can figure out why... You're not attracted to her?

In which case you should break up with her.

OscarMike

judgefudge wrote: »

It seems from your thread title you can figure out why... You're not attracted to her?

In which case you should break up with her.

But i dont want to hurt her, she loves me

judgefudge

You're going to hurt her more by dragging this out. What's your plan? Stay with her forever despite not being attracted to her?

Man up and break it off with her in a nice, but firm, manner. She will be hurt but she'll get over it

OscarMike

http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/no-sexual-attraction-girlfriend-35503.html

this is exsact situation

P. Breathnach

OscarMike wrote: »

But i dont want to hurt her, she loves me

An honourable thought. But do you love her?

Meauldsegosha

OscarMike wrote: »

But i dont want to hurt her, she loves me

Realistically does she love you. You say you got into the relationship not long ago and only had sex 3 times. So how long have you been together, a month or two? While it is nice you are considering her feelings if you are not attracted to her it's best, for both of you, to finish things.

Op, we feel you got plenty of advice from previous threads on this issue

all the best