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Loneliness after LTR

  • 12-05-2013 05:50PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Im not sure if this is the correct forum as its more the aftermath of a relationship than an actual relationship problem. I came out of a LTR 9 months ago & I'm finding it very difficult to adjust to life being single. Most of my friends have settled down & are getting married or have babies on the way. I am 30 and a single mother, I have my son 5 nights a week & I also work full time so I'm kept busy mostly. I try to get out & go to excercise classes, go for coffee etc. I go out for drinks etc when my friends are about but that's not often really.

    I find the evenings particularly hard, i can uduslly fill my days but when my son goes to bed or at weekends when I'm sitting in I just feel very alone. I can't imagine how I'd ever even meet someone new because I don't get out and about enough to meet anyone. I don't even particularly want a boyfriend, I'd be happy with some friends that were around more. I'm at a loss as to what I can do 😳. Any advice would be welcome


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  • #2
    Tiamii
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20 ✭Tiamii


    Lonely soul wrote: »
    Im not sure if this is the correct forum as its more the aftermath of a relationship than an actual relationship problem. I came out of a LTR 9 months ago & I'm finding it very difficult to adjust to life being single. Most of my friends have settled down & are getting married or have babies on the way. I am 30 and a single mother, I have my son 5 nights a week & I also work full time so I'm kept busy mostly. I try to get out & go to excercise classes, go for coffee etc. I go out for drinks etc when my friends are about but that's not often really.

    I find the evenings particularly hard, i can uduslly fill my days but when my son goes to bed or at weekends when I'm sitting in I just feel very alone. I can't imagine how I'd ever even meet someone new because I don't get out and about enough to meet anyone. I don't even particularly want a boyfriend, I'd be happy with some friends that were around more. I'm at a loss as to what I can do 😳. Any advice would be welcome

    Awe hunny I'm in the same boat, PM me anytime for a Girly chat x


  • #3
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    Tiamii - I know you are new to this forum but asking someone to PM you here is a big no-no on our charter and regularly results in a ban.
    Please take some time now to read our charter and site faq before you post here again.

    Thanks
    Taltos


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