tempted to cheat

dancesatnight

Hello

i have been with my G/F for 9 monthes now and living together for 5. we moved in way to quick and we are very different i have a very high sex drive and her not so much. im very touchy feely and she isnt.

basically we havent had sex in like 2 monthes. im at my wits end at this stage because of the lack of phyical touching. not just the ride but i mean sitting on the sofa and snuggling in to each other.

i know she has been depressed over putting on a bit of weight and not feeling attractive. ive explained i need to get some because im stressed and i find its wonderful for that and puts both parties in a better mood. she always come up with something but mostly its a headache or her back hurts.

i wondering what people think should i just break up with her and move out or take a friend up on an arrangment of just a stress relieving hook up. she has a B/F as well so it would be no strings attached.

December2012

What is she doing about her depression?

Doop

I don't think cheating is the way forward, would ur gf be really upset if u suggested a more open relationship? 2 months is a long time, when ur young and in the early stages of a relationship. Whatever about the sex, but cuddling etc isn't a lot to ask. You need to talk it out with her properly, is she happy in the relationship?

dancesatnight

she is going to some fat fighters meeting once a week. she says she is trying to snap out of it but im still frustrated and blueballed.

i honestly think she would freak out and cry and make me feel like poo if i sugguested an open realtionship. i told her i need more but she said she doesnt know want to coz she feel gross unattractive, fat and worthless. i personally think. a good ride would do her the world of good. thehead board might even knock some sense it to her. ok that was a really bad joke.

say the worse happened and i did take my mate up on the offer. some time down the line she found out coz she finds everything out. how bad would it be if i explained.
i tried but the flesh is weak and it meant nothing

Ickle Magoo

OP,

You keep posting about this girl, your relationship does not seem healthy and I'm not sure why you didn't break up before christmas as you stated you were going to.

Take the advice you got in your previous threads and please don't post on this issue again.

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