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  • 03-05-2013 10:38pm
    #1
    She Who Dares Wins
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 50 ✭✭


    Ive met up with a guy in met online a few months ago five times now for kinda non-traditional 'dates' (if you could call them that). We get on great, have a few major common interests, but we havn't even kissed as of yet. I normally dont discuss guy stuff with anyone but in this case of confusion I asked my friend and my sister and got two different opinions.

    Friend:
    So if we keep meeting up and doing stuff like we do at the mo its heading towards the twilight area that is the friend zone and is likely to get stuck there.

    Sister:
    Let friendship develop, let him get used to having you in his life and let it develop from there



    So who do you agree with based on your experiences? Why is this all sooo hard huh? :confused:


Comments

  • #2
    _dublinlad_
    Closed Accounts Posts: 243 ✭✭_dublinlad_


    Maybe the guy is simply shy. Why not help him along and pull him in for the first kiss?


  • #3
    Cupcake_Crisis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    Make the first move op, if you're too shy to do it in person, ask him via text.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    As a guy in a similar situation (few dates in, not sure when to make a move), go for it or say something. This stuff isn't any easier for guys, I'd definitely be relieved.


  • #5
    She Who Dares Wins
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 50 ✭✭She Who Dares Wins


    Job done ;)


  • #6
    araic88
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 313 ✭✭araic88


    She Who Dares Wins wrote: »
    Ive met up with a guy in met online a few months ago five times now for kinda non-traditional 'dates' (if you could call them that). We get on great, have a few major common interests, but we havn't even kissed as of yet.

    Glad it got sorted OP :) I'm in same position as your first post. Usually I wouldn't think/worry about this but since date 3 (we;ve now met 4 times) i've been wondering is he not interested etc. I think it has made me a bit self-concious or shy :o I'm quite shy as it is, maybe I should do the Irish thing and get a few drinks in us ;) it's tricky though as we're about 90 mins apart, too far to get a taxi if drinking


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