Have i just been dumped?

LegacyUser

Is it possible i'm dreaming and going through a complete deja vu??

2 years ago.. I met a guy, seeing him for few weeks , on phone calling and texting me every day. but it wasnt one sided, i really liked him, rung/ text him too.
Then bam nothing. literally for a week then when i called/texted. i got msg xmas day to say lost phone etc.. call later. never did hear and never did hear why.


I think the very same thing has just happened me.
Every single day we've been speaking or texting for last 6 weeks.
and now all weekend he's actually home (lives in UK) and i've got 3 messages since Friday and they were replies to my messages only. no questions for me, just him answering.

Or else he's being extremely considerate and knows i've a huge thing starting tomorrow and doesnt want to distract me in any way at all.
or else i'm being a selfish b*tch and am not realising that he's wanted to spend time with family etc and no time for me.

I'm a positive thinker generally but from loads to nothing. I know the story.. biggest non subtle hint of saying Good luck.
but Whyyyyyyy!!!

Lux23

Maybe just ask him what's up?

Fluorescence

Maybe he's just been busy catching up with everyone if he lives in the UK?

judgefudge

Nobody here is going to be able to answer this. You need to just ask him.

Generally though I would say it's a bad sign when contact starts to become one sided.

LegacyUser

Thanks for replying guys.
I know no-one can tell me why.

Think i'm over reacting due to previous relationship that ended this way.

twill be grand, if he wants this to end, i'll let him tell himself.

CaraMay

Tbh if I were really interested in someone I would make time to see them. Move on op, he isbtvery pushed.

LegacyUser

so i heard from after i texted him early last week. but he was informing me of bad news about someone i know.

So there started literally THE worst week of my entire life. and he my lovely darling decided he didn't need to make contact all week and when i finally rung him at the weekend (with few drinks in me) he was short with me and annoyed cos i woke him - fair enough.. i understand that.
I texted him explaining how upset i was about the thing that happened and that him ignoring me i.e. me not knowing what was going on wasnt helping me. i.e. i could do with a chat etc

did i get a reply? no.

I am not that hard a person to speak to.. I get he's not bothered anymore.. feelings just werent there .. but why not just tell me/ text me/ facebook me/ email me/ Call me and tell me rather than

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nothing!

I'm not a person to go wailing down the phone or stalking.

this is coincidently the second time this has happened me.

It's so hurtful.