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I feel so bad

  • 27-04-2013 4:04am
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    Me and the ex are meeting up tomorrow to cuddle and just hang out. We've both been through alot lately and miss just chilling in each other's arms. She's looking at travelling soon so we know it's not us falling back into a relationship...

    Tonight I'm out for drinks and catch a girl's eye. Next thing we're outside having some fun and I've given her my number. She's travelling back to Oz. We talk about meeting up before she goes. We get up to some fun. She goes to get her cab and I lie and re enter a telephone number--- a fake one. All I can think is if it were the real one she'd ring me or text me when I'm with my ex which would just be horrible for everyone. So I give her a fake number.

    I feel sick at myself for doing that. I'd automatically told her to text me when she gets home. Now she'll text the random number I'd put in. I've made a fool of her. I wish to god I'd had the courage not to do that. God I feel awful.


Comments

  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Yes, you're a bit of a coward for not doing the right thing and just being honest about it. Sorry to put it to you so bluntly, but you could have just said no - she's leaving the country so probably would have understood.

    Meanwhile, with this ex, do you really think meeting up to cuddle is the best thing for you? When she leaves, it's going to hit you extra hard, because you haven't adjusted. An ex is an ex for a reason, generally.


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