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medical problems and self image

  • 24-04-2013 5:16pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Im 41, never had sex, had one girlfriend.

    I have been getting medical treatment for a serious issue that should have been spotted at birth. basicly, my body never developed.. never hit puberty, never shaved in my life.

    over the last 6 months i have been receiving treatment for this, and without going into details it was working great, over the last month its been bad, feeling depressed again etc, i knew something was wrong. At hospital today i have been told that the treatment has failed, and there is no other way to treat or fix this. To never have children, never be developed like normal men, and never to feel the intimacy of sex with someone you love.

    What is left for me, i see myself as a freak, im fairly sure no woman out there enjoy the 2 inch guys, and ones that are 41 but look 20ish

    My world has collapsed and sitting here i cant think of anything worth living for ( not saying i would commit suicide, too much of a coward ) just mean whats left to do??

    Due to this illness i am unemployed ( on sick pay ) this was my last hope in the world, and now it has failed.

    Do you think ANYONE would date a freak like me?


Comments

  • #2
    Diziet
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 831 ✭✭✭Diziet


    Well they can't date you if you are sitting at home :-). But it is a big issue you are dealing with, so get some psychological help for the depression. Talk to your GP for a start.

    As for the dating, many women will be very happy to date men who are kind, respectful, can hold a conversation and have a sense of humour. This is more important than anything else, so get some help, try to think a bit more postitively and most importanly don't isolate yourself.


  • #3
    Diziet
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 831 ✭✭✭Diziet


    Well they can't date you if you are sitting at home :-). But it is a big issue you are dealing with, so get some psychological help for the depression. Talk to your GP for a start.

    As for the dating, many women will be very happy to date men who are kind, respectful, can hold a conversation and have a sense of humour. This is more important than anything else, so get some help, try to think a bit more postitively and most importanly don't isolate yourself.


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