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unexplainable worry

  • 18-04-2013 11:59am
    #1
    unexplainable worry
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭


    HI All,
    I don't even know were to start with this as it makes no sense to me never mid anyone else.

    Basically i have just left my partner to the airport as she is heading off on a bachelorette party to Spain for 4 days and i am so stressed over it.

    I am going out with her for 6 years and she has been away plenty of times before with her pals, both at home and abroad for similar time scale and it has never fazed me in the slightest.
    But for some unexplainable and unjustifiable reason this trip has me worried that she may cheat on me.

    As i said this is completely unexplainable as i have never once doubted her or thought that she would even be tempted to stray. If anything we have become more committed to each other since her last girlie weekend away as we bough a house and finalised details to get married at the end of the year.

    Nothing in our relationship has change / happened to cause this , i am not a jealous type of person and she while being chatty and friendly would not be a flirty type.

    The way i feel is so out of character and out of the blue that i just cant get my head around why i am think this way.

    Has anyone else every felt like this for no reason and out of the blue

    Thanks


Comments

  • #2
    IrishEyes19
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,861 ✭✭✭IrishEyes19


    Maybe because things are heading towards commitment wise now at such a strong pace with a house and marriage on the horizon, you are worried she may feel overwhelmed when out on a bachelorette party. There's nothing you can really do here, but sit tight. I wouldnt advise addressing this with her right before she goes or during it, but its up to you. Everything in your relationship sounds great. dont let this one worry mess that up


  • #3
    Lorna123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,116 ✭✭✭Lorna123


    Don't worry, she will be missing you and wishing you were with her. She will be dying to get back to you. She will probably be thanking her lucky stars that she has you when she sees the competition, so rest easy.


  • #4
    car.kar
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 101 ✭✭car.kar


    It seems this is just a random once-off panic that you are having. If you can think of absolutely no good reason for this worry, then just try not to think about it and don't let it get to you. You know that it's unfounded, so simply try and keep your mind occupied until she comes home, and keep repeating to yourself that you don't need to be concerned.


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