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How to ask her out?

  • 13-04-2013 8:57pm
    #1
    astonaidan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,456 ✭✭✭


    Ok well Im kinda in a situation Im not used to, theres a girl in my class ive been digging and I know she feels the same as she constantly talks about me to him.
    the thing is Ive never actually asked a girl out, its just kinda always happened.
    So were all going out for drinks after final exams next saturday and im kinda stuck as to what to do
    Any ideas?


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  • #2
    beks101
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,802 ✭✭✭beks101


    Spend some time talking to her on your class night out and ask her for her number. Follow up with a text and take it from there.


  • #3
    astonaidan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,456 ✭✭✭astonaidan


    beks101 wrote: »
    Spend some time talking to her on your class night out and ask her for her number. Follow up with a text and take it from there.

    Well this is making it worse, but already have her number and theres been a few back and forths between us.
    Dam I actually feel like an total idiot over this


  • #4
    wallycharlo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 344 ✭✭wallycharlo


    astonaidan wrote: »
    Ok well Im kinda in a situation Im not used to, theres a girl in my class ive been digging and I know she feels the same as she constantly talks about me to him.
    the thing is Ive never actually asked a girl out, its just kinda always happened.
    So were all going out for drinks after final exams next saturday and im kinda stuck as to what to do
    Any ideas?

    to who? :confused:


  • #5
    astonaidan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,456 ✭✭✭astonaidan


    wallycharlo wrote: »
    to who? :confused:
    A guy on the course who is a mutual friend of ours, being a 100% honest theres a reason I dont see him as a rival, lets just say shes not his type :o


  • #6
    Floppybits
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,842 ✭✭✭Floppybits


    astonaidan wrote: »
    A guy on the course who is a mutual friend of ours, being a 100% honest theres a reason I dont see him as a rival, lets just say shes not his type :o

    Your just going to have to bite the bullet and ask. There is no right way or wrong way and it can be as simple as fancy going for a drink later or fancy going to see a movie. As they ad says "Just do it".:D


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  • #7
    bunnystalker
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 80 ✭✭bunnystalker


    JUST ASK HER ....... Hay is there any reason I cant take you out out to dinner before the group go out out for drinks ? If she says no .....BOOM ... your in .... you will be married in no time .


  • #8
    astonaidan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,456 ✭✭✭astonaidan


    bunnystalker wrote: »
    JUST ASK HER ....... Hay is there any reason I cant take you out out to dinner before the group go out out for drinks ? If she says no .....BOOM ... your in .... you will be married in no time .

    Haha Well there is the small case of having exams directly before drinks, think marriage isnt for me quiet yet


  • #9
    astonaidan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,456 ✭✭✭astonaidan


    Well guys possibly the first girl Ive liked in about a year and I ****ed it up, went out for the night as planned had a good time,
    when we were out dancing I missed like 10 windows to go for the kiss and then outside the club was blocked by the old scottish guy who was staying in her house cause he missed his lift home, so he wouldnt leave us alone for a few mins:(
    I sent her a banter text this morning to which she hasnt replied and I think it would come across as desperate sending her a text asking her out in this case now.
    So utterly pissed at myself:mad:


  • #10
    wallycharlo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 344 ✭✭wallycharlo


    astonaidan wrote: »
    ...I sent her a banter text this morning to which she hasnt replied and I think it would come across as desperate sending her a text asking her out in this case now...

    You're over reacting, it's only been a few hours since you texted her?


  • #11
    squonk
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,990 ✭✭✭squonk


    yeah, and for heavens sake, ask her out properly and go spend some nice quality time together just you and her, alone. No scottish, Irish or any other guys involved!


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  • #12
    astonaidan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,456 ✭✭✭astonaidan


    wallycharlo wrote: »
    You're over reacting, it's only been a few hours since you texted her?
    squonk wrote: »
    yeah, and for heavens sake, ask her out properly and go spend some nice quality time together just you and her, alone. No scottish, Irish or any other guys involved!

    So from a girls point of view, you gave a guy countless windows which he didnt take out of fear cause he liked her to much on the saturday.
    then he texted you on a monday but you didnt reply to it.
    Like really should I ask her out?
    Maybe I am over reading this a bit:o


  • #13
    astonaidan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,456 ✭✭✭astonaidan


    Well I asked her out at least I have that,
    went for a run in the gym had a bet on with my friend that I could run 20mins better than my best if I did Id text her, nearly killed me but was something I wanted to do. Hoping I get a yes now


  • #14
    desbrook
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,847 ✭✭✭desbrook


    astonaidan wrote: »
    Well I asked her out at least I have that,
    went for a run in the gym had a bet on with my friend that I could run 20mins better than my best if I did Id text her, nearly killed me but was something I wanted to do. Hoping I get a yes now

    Hope all goes well but one thing bugs me. What on earth would you guys do without text?
    20 years ago we had to SPEAK to girls . Most guys then would have killed to just be able to type a message and send it .
    Just remember even if she does say yes there will still be windows to kiss her that require a decision on the date. Be honest is my advice - if you are nervous say it. She might feel the same ;-) it not about what you " do" but what you share on the date and if you both feel the same way that's a start.


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