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  • 09-04-2013 8:58pm
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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi

    This has been going back and forth in my mind. I've been attracted to women for a few years now. I had a crush on some women but we couldn't be together because of the distance between us . Then i met a guy which i dated for a few months. Things were fine between us, i liked him as a person but i had no real feelings for him, it was like something is missing. After the break up ,all those feels of longing to be with a women resurfaced. I've tried to visualize a heterosexual relationship but i can't. When ever i have romantic/erotic dreams ,it always features a women. There is a women i like, she is similar to the other women i had a crush on, i guess i have a type .

    From what I've mentioned could you say i am just curious or its more than that?


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    #2
    Hamhide
    Registered Users Posts: 289 ✭✭Hamhide


    I'd say you deffo have a thing for chicks.Ask her out and get on with it.


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    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Go ahead and try out the girls if you're feeling that strongly for them and it's resurfaced. If your feelings are fairly fluid and shift again, then no harm either.

    Er, to put it crudely, I find it's best to follow your other head as it avoids overthinking things needlessly which just leaves you more confused when it comes to issues like this.

    Go with what feels good, forget the labels and you'll be sorted.


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