Wearing this to a wedding?

Ms.Sunshine

Can I wear this dress to a wedding at the beginning of summer? I know it is cream but i think it is fab and is the only nice dress I can see at the mo. If i was to wear it I would wear a nice vibrant colour i think to take away from the fact it is cream.

Advice please?

http://www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?beginIndex=0&viewAllFlag=&catalogId=33057&storeId=12556&productId=9402457&langId=-1&categoryId=&parent_category_rn=&searchTerm=35G05DCRM&resultCount=1&geoip=home#BVRRWidgetID

chubchub

Personall I would say no. U dont think cream looks well for a wedding

3rdDegree

I would advise against.

Ms.Sunshine

Has anybody seen any nice dresses/outfit that would be suitable instead???

dudara

Too close to white for me, and possibly too short (though it's hard to judge without seeing it on a model).

Coast is considered cliched but they do have lovely dresses. For instance, I wore this dress recently to a family wedding.

tomboylady

I've been to two weddings in the past six months. I got one dress in Debenhams, and the other in Monsoon. Usual spots but both were really lovely.

2rkehij30qtza5

Definately not a dress to wear to a wedding.
The coast dress above is much more suitable!

convert

I've been to quite a few weddings recently, and I was completely surprised at the number of girls who wore cream to the summer weddings. I think 6 out of 10 (excluding the bride) were wearing white in one photo! I think it really depends on where you're from and the bride, as well as how close your relationship with her is. I know one or 2 of my friends who'd be really insulted if anyone wore white/cream to their weddings, but others have absolutely no problem with it.

A few years ago, I had to go to one of my best friend's wedding which took place just 2 weeks after a family bereavement. I'd had no time to get to the shops to look for a dress, and ended up having to wear a cream dress (was the only one I had that would fit me). I was absolutely mortified, but to try and 'camoflage' it, I wore a bright coat over it, and used accessories to make it look less 'cream'. In the photos it didn't look in the least bit 'bridal' and didn't stand out for the wrong reasons. It just depends on the type wedding you're attending.

Tayla

I really don't think that dress is suitable, here's another picture of the dress and I think the beading on the dress looks like something that could be on an actual wedding dress.

http://www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CatalogNavigationSearchResultCmd?catalogId=33057&storeId=12556&langId=-1&viewAllFlag=false&categoryId=1070286&interstitial=true&TS=1363171850657&stop_mobi=yes&_$ja=tsid:27744|cgn:UKSolus_Prom_A_w30|kw:link_1&switch=1&cmpid=201330_78&geoip=noredirect

starmix08

Have to say I agree with most of the posters, I wouldn't wear it. Better safe than sorry, you don't wanna annoy anyone on their big day!! Some lovely other suggestions above tho...

Toast4532

Tayla wrote: »

I really don't think that dress is suitable, here's another picture of the dress and I think the beading on the dress looks like something that could be on an actual wedding dress.

http://www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CatalogNavigationSearchResultCmd?catalogId=33057&storeId=12556&langId=-1&viewAllFlag=false&categoryId=1070286&interstitial=true&TS=1363171850657&stop_mobi=yes&_$ja=tsid:27744|cgn:UKSolus_Prom_A_w30|kw:link_1&switch=1&cmpid=201330_78&geoip=noredirect

I have seen wedding dresses with similar beading on them so I definitely wouldn't be wearing that dress to a wedding.

OP there are other, more suitable dresses in shops now, have another look around and avoid cream unless you know the bride and know she won't mind if you wear it!

Penny Dreadful

dudara wrote: »

Too close to white for me, and possibly too short (though it's hard to judge without seeing it on a model).

Coast is considered cliched but they do have lovely dresses. For instance, I wore this dress recently to a family wedding.

I was in Coast yesterday and spotted this dress. Its gorgeous. Worth serious consideration OP. The fabric in particular is really good.

xalot

OP I really wouldn't wear that dress. I'd go mental is someone wore that to my wedding - though I'll admit that's very shallow of me!

Meangadh

Personally I wouldn't care less whether a girl coming to my wedding was wearing white or cream, but I know a lot, if not most, brides consider it a no-no so probably best to steer clear OP- which is a shame cos I think that dress is fabulous.

I think that Coast dress is really lovely and very appropriate even though it's not the type of style I would go for personally myself.

Would you consider either of these:

Similar style to the topshop one (although maybe a bit short):


http://www.asos.com/ASOS-Petite/ASOS-PETITE-Exclusive-Embellished-Collar-Jacquard-Dress/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=2446128&SearchQuery=Embellished&Rf900=1465&sh=0&pge=0&pgesize=200&sort=3&clr=Black



http://www.newlook.com/shop/womens/dresses/ax-paris-black-laser-cut-skater-dress-_281303401



http://www.newlook.com/shop/womens/dresses/te-amo-black-crochet-skater-dress_276465001

Or something more simple but that you could add bling/embellishment with jewellery and accessories:



http://shop.mango.com/IE/p0/mango/clothing/dresses/cocktailparty/mesh-panel-dress/?id=83440353_02&n=1&s=prendas.vestidosprendas&ie=0&m=&ts=1364482065402

tinkerbell

Reiss also do lovely dresses which you could wear to a wedding. Steer clear of cream OP!

Midnight Sundance

I think Natalie Cassidy was spotted wearing the same / similar dress today

Ms.Sunshine

Thanks for all the helpful replies ladies! I think I will leave the dress because the last thing I would want to do is insult the bride in some way! Natalie Cassidy does nothing for that dress I think. I think the Coast dress is pretty but Im not sure if I would feel comfortable in it. The Asos dress is lovely but can you wear black to a summer wedding?
I tried on a few dresses today and i saw two lovely peplum dresses one in purple and the other is a blue/Navy.

blondie29

I've been to lots of weddings in last few years & have seen lots of girls wearing cream dresses.

I wore cream peplum knee length last year to wedding & accessorised with blue shoes bag & jewellery. Nobody batted an eye lid.

I'm engaged & cudnt care less if someone turned up in cream/white dress. I think so long as it's not long.

I think it's lovely OP. If u don't feel the bride will be angry wear away!

Meangadh

Ms.Sunshine wrote: »

Natalie Cassidy does nothing for that dress I think. I think the Coast dress is pretty but Im not sure if I would feel comfortable in it. The Asos dress is lovely but can you wear black to a summer wedding?

I'd definitely think it's ok to wear black to a summer wedding- I know some people might think it's kinda dark but in fairness it could be lashing rain or cold in this country so I wouldn't worry about it. And even if it's a bright sunny day, it's a short sleeveless dress so you wouldn't be all covered up or anything- plus the embellishment brightens it up anyway.

Natalie Cassidy wearing the jacket over that dress just takes away from the fabulous detail that makes the dress what it is!

Ms.Sunshine

Thanks for all the replies! I bought a dress today which I am in love with and I got a dramatic fascinator with big feathers!! I am not sure on what to wear with it. Should I avoid wearing a small black shawl? I don't want to look OTT with the headpiece. Also should I just wear black peep toes or can I go nude?

Is it not a no-no to wear black to a wedding?

I've always found weddings a nightmare - no white, no cream, no black (I thought), and then the fact that if you buy a high street dress, someone else might well be wearing it too (happened to me once).

I now just get 'vintage' type dresses from markets and dress them up with nice accessories. I know no-one else will be wearing it, they have a wider range of colours than on the high street and nice prints.

tomboylady

I wore black to a wedding last year... it was a last-minute invite and I literally had nothing else. I accessorised with red though, shawl etc which brightened it up.

Teyla Emmagan

Ms.Sunshine wrote: »

Thanks for all the replies! I bought a dress today which I am in love with and I got a dramatic fascinator with big feathers!! I am not sure on what to wear with it. Should I avoid wearing a small black shawl? I don't want to look OTT with the headpiece. Also should I just wear black peep toes or can I go nude?

I'd possibly go black for the shoes. The colour isn't really a 'nude' is it?

SusieBlue

Sorry to hijack your thread OP but I also happen to be considering that same dress for my cousins wedding in May.

I agree however about the colour, but am considering getting it dyed professionally.

How would you all feel about that same dress in a light, dusty pink, a pastel muted green or a light grey? Or is it still totally out of the question?

Ms.Sunshine

Teyla Emmagan wrote: »

I'd possibly go black for the shoes. The colour isn't really a 'nude' is it?

Ya black would probably be the best option for me. Do you think I should wear a little blazer or a shawl with it? Or should I leave it.

Ms.Sunshine

WhiteRoses wrote: »

Sorry to hijack your thread OP but I also happen to be considering that same dress for my cousins wedding in May.

I agree however about the colour, but am considering getting it dyed professionally.

How would you all feel about that same dress in a light, dusty pink, a pastel muted green or a light grey? Or is it still totally out of the question?

I guess you could do that. The thought never crossed my mind. It would be a bit of extra work for you! I think a light pink might be similar to the white, If you went a stronger colour maybe it would work but im not sure tbh!I just love the dress in white, i wouldnt want to ruin it!!

Dolbert

Tadeo Ugly Oats wrote: »

Is it not a no-no to wear black to a wedding?

Nah, black is fine IMO. White or cream are the only colours that may draw some ire from the bride (or other guests)!

Ms.Sunshine

Dolbert wrote: »

Nah, black is fine IMO. White or cream are the only colours that may draw some ire from the bride (or other guests)![/Q

I think Jet black can look a bit strong for a summer wedding. I think the dress I got is perfect for a summer wedding..

ciaracp

Black is ok for a wedding imo...the best dressed lady at the galway races last year had a black lace dress!

dudara

Ms.Sunshine wrote: »

Ya black would probably be the best option for me. Do you think I should wear a little blazer or a shawl with it? Or should I leave it.

I'd always wear a little jacket or something to the church. They can be drafty and it stops those horrible goosebumps from appearing. It can always be ditched later.

iluv2dance10

I would advise against also. Try TKMAXX!

Teyla Emmagan

Ms.Sunshine wrote: »

Ya black would probably be the best option for me. Do you think I should wear a little blazer or a shawl with it? Or should I leave it.

Dudara is right, you will need something for the church to cover your shoulders. Or more importantly, to stop you freezing waiting around the church after!

mood

I love the dress but don't think it's appropriate to wear a white/cream dress to a wedding.

Ms.Sunshine

mood wrote: »

I love the dress but don't think it's appropriate to wear a white/cream dress to a wedding.

I think it is fine to wear to it because it is not an obvious cream dress. In person it looks more beige because of the material under the lace.
The bride won't mind at all plus it has black on it!!

shoos

I was also looking for advice on dresses for weddings. I have one coming up really soon and it's the first wedding I've been to so not quite sure what the dress etiquette is. I know there's been some discussion over wearing cream but I was wondering does that count for the dress below? It's kind of a yellow/orangey cream on top? The second one is another option, would that be appropriate?

Someone said earlier about not wearing short dresses but I'm short myself and anything close to or at the knee look horrific on me.

leanonme

I also have a wedding coming up and this is the dress I am looking at. Is it suitable?

dudara

@shoos - for me, the first dress is lovely. The dusky pink skirt is a beautiful colour. The second dress doesn't come across well, though maybe that's because it's on a hanger.

@leanonme - Love the pattern on that dress. Wouldn't see anything wrong with it for a wedding.

Shoos, I'd agree with dudara, the first dress is very nice and totally appropriate, but the second isn't quite as nice and you'd have to have a very small bust for the top to not seem a bit revealing for a church.

Leanonme, I wouldn't say the dress is inappropriate, but I don't see the need to take the risk of wearing any white to a wedding. It is lovely though, if you're set on it go for it but there's no harm in looking around a bit more to avoid the white.

leanonme

true-or-false wrote: »

Shoos, I'd agree with dudara, the first dress is very nice and totally appropriate, but the second isn't quite as nice and you'd have to have a very small bust for the top to not seem a bit revealing for a church.

Leanonme, I wouldn't say the dress is inappropriate, but I don't see the need to take the risk of wearing any white to a wedding. It is lovely though, if you're set on it go for it but there's no harm in looking around a bit more to avoid the white.

My difficulty is that I find it very hard to get dresses, as I am 6ft 2in tall, so many normal dress are way too short, or the proportions are way off. I already have the dress bought as i got it for my cousins wedding this year, and then found a nicer dress, so went with it. So hoping not to but another dress.

shoos

true-or-false wrote: »

Shoos, I'd agree with dudara, the first dress is very nice and totally appropriate, but the second isn't quite as nice and you'd have to have a very small bust for the top to not seem a bit revealing for a church.

Leanonme, I wouldn't say the dress is inappropriate, but I don't see the need to take the risk of wearing any white to a wedding. It is lovely though, if you're set on it go for it but there's no harm in looking around a bit more to avoid the white.

Think that's decided it, I'll go with the first one!

To be honest, the second looks grand on. My bust is very small and it completely covers me, no boob lines or cleavage. But the black and darker colours... I think something brighter would suit a spring wedding.